Don't worry, I'm not gonna start any sword fights. I'm over that phase.

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Jul 30, 2007 1:08:45 pm PDT #8820 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

well, I wish that the south I lived in had your souths customs.


Ginger - Jul 30, 2007 1:13:01 pm PDT #8821 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

t waves at Gloomcookie

Step outside and remind yourself about the humid South.


Glamcookie - Jul 30, 2007 1:17:05 pm PDT #8822 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

t waves at Ginger

I did feel the hot hot heat when I deplaned. Yikes!!


Vortex - Jul 30, 2007 1:36:21 pm PDT #8823 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

~ma to Beverly. You're starting to sound like me with my closing date that I still don't have ;)


Pix - Jul 30, 2007 1:37:40 pm PDT #8824 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Vortex, you're kidding me! You must be ready to kill someone. Is there any end in sight?

Bev, much ~ma...but not TOO much...headed your way, love.


omnis_audis - Jul 30, 2007 1:54:42 pm PDT #8825 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

ok, question, as I have no sense when it comes to dating, and apparently online dating is no better. If you are having a great e-mail exchange with someone, when do you say "hey let's meet for a cup of coffee"? Even tho the e-mails seem to go well, and both of us have "meeting new people" and/or "LTR" listed in profile, seems whenever I suggest that, the line goes cold. I've waited for like 3 or 4 volleys of e-mails. I'm starting to think that is too soon. But then when?

I know.. I know... Patience is a virtue.


juliana - Jul 30, 2007 1:55:18 pm PDT #8826 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

You're starting to sound like me with my closing date that I still don't have ;)

....

You're fucking kidding. Oy.

Ach, Bev. Sorry, hon. Mellow ~ma and cabana boys headed your way.


§ ita § - Jul 30, 2007 1:56:03 pm PDT #8827 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

If there were rules, I'd be getting laid. Or at least know precisely why (well, outside of the migraines) I'm not.


juliana - Jul 30, 2007 2:00:34 pm PDT #8828 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I suck at online dating, but the coffee discussion does tend to come up around 3 or 4 volleys in. Maybe try waiting? Maybe put that you'd like to meet for coffee quickly in your profile?

Mind, I am (was) a theater person, so most of my relationships have been with fellow (insane!) actors/directors. In that case, there is no coffee, there is just insanity.

And I know you are theater as well, but I think you've learned to avoid the insanity.


omnis_audis - Jul 30, 2007 2:25:27 pm PDT #8829 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Ya, I try not to date Directors. Actress tend to look my over, as I am neither tall, dark or handsome. I've had luck with Stage Managers & Costumers. But ya, we all are a lil screwy in the head. Best to have just one of those in a relationship.

The problem with waiting is.. well.. as the guy, shouldn't I take the initiative. I know that sounds horribly old fashioned, but garrum it, it doesn't seem that many ladies do...and those that do have BF's.