Laga--I wouldn't say anything to my sister. The Husband is the one you both have trouble with. Talking to your sister makes it her responsibiliy, when the issue is entirely with him.
We're in love. We're ... lovers. We're lesbian, gay-type lovers.
Willow ,'Potential'
Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Scrappy - Jul 24, 2007 8:00:32 am PDT #7781 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Vortex - Jul 24, 2007 8:02:50 am PDT #7782 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Laga--I wouldn't say anything to my sister. The Husband is the one you both have trouble with. Talking to your sister makes it her responsibiliy, when the issue is entirely with him.
I think that you need to talk to both, but when you talk to your sister, make it clear that you aren't asking her to intervene, you just want her to know why you don't want to spend time with him.
beth b - Jul 24, 2007 8:22:59 am PDT #7783 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
make it clear that you aren't asking her to intervene, you just want her to know why you don't want to spend time with him.
which Vortex says in the fewest words is what I talked around. I am assuming that Mom can't talk to the husband. But if she can , he should also hear what is going on .
Pix - Jul 24, 2007 8:31:17 am PDT #7784 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Knowing laga's sister and her not!dear husband, I think the problem is that they can't talk to him. I sincerely believe the man is a sociopath.
Ma for MM!
Just landed in LA.
Cashmere - Jul 24, 2007 8:45:17 am PDT #7785 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
At least my worst BiL is just a racist asshole, not a sociopath. I don't bother my sister with how I feel because she loves him and he treats her well. I just try to limit my time with him. He usually obliges because of the asshole part.
We made it to the gym early (9:30) and I got to swim 20 minutes. Then we went to Sam's Club to stock up. I found Sesame Street juice boxes. Owen was delighted, to say the least.
Ginger - Jul 24, 2007 8:46:27 am PDT #7786 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Jamie Bamber is in there too. Proof once again that ita knows hot.
Yay for employed husband, Sparky!
NoiseDesign - Jul 24, 2007 8:51:35 am PDT #7787 of 10001
Our wings are not tired
Welcome home sweetie.
beth b - Jul 24, 2007 8:56:29 am PDT #7788 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Congradulations to your DH,Sparky. I know this hasn't been easy for you guys
Pix - Jul 24, 2007 9:00:24 am PDT #7789 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Congrats to Sparky's DH!
Thanks, love. Trip was bittersweet. Hard to leave Mom, who started crying. Knowing I have you to come home to makes everything so much better.
Daisy Jane - Jul 24, 2007 9:01:36 am PDT #7790 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
Awww. Y'all are so sweet.