Laga--I wouldn't say anything to my sister. The Husband is the one you both have trouble with. Talking to your sister makes it her responsibiliy, when the issue is entirely with him.

I think that you need to talk to both, but when you talk to your sister, make it clear that you aren't asking her to intervene, you just want her to know why you don't want to spend time with him.

make it clear that you aren't asking her to intervene, you just want her to know why you don't want to spend time with him.

which Vortex says in the fewest words is what I talked around. I am assuming that Mom can't talk to the husband. But if she can , he should also hear what is going on .

Knowing laga's sister and her not!dear husband, I think the problem is that they can't talk to him. I sincerely believe the man is a sociopath.

Ma for MM!

Just landed in LA.

At least my worst BiL is just a racist asshole, not a sociopath. I don't bother my sister with how I feel because she loves him and he treats her well. I just try to limit my time with him. He usually obliges because of the asshole part.

We made it to the gym early (9:30) and I got to swim 20 minutes. Then we went to Sam's Club to stock up. I found Sesame Street juice boxes. Owen was delighted, to say the least.

Jamie Bamber is in there too. Proof once again that ita knows hot.

Yay for employed husband, Sparky!

Welcome home sweetie.

Congradulations to your DH,Sparky. I know this hasn't been easy for you guys

Congrats to Sparky's DH!

Thanks, love. Trip was bittersweet. Hard to leave Mom, who started crying. Knowing I have you to come home to makes everything so much better.

Awww. Y'all are so sweet.

Don't mean to be PDA with the schmoop, but I'm just really glad to be home.