Aims, just say "I've really enjoyed working here, and I feel that we have a good relationship, so I can talk to you about this. I've been offered a job that includes benefits, which my family needs. I'm sorry to leave you in the lurch, but I have to go with the job that offers benefits included in the salary" Make it about the benefits, not him.
This girl at school? She told me that gelatin is made from ground-up cow's feet and that every time you eat Jell-O there's some cow out there limping around without any feet. But I told her that I'm sure the cow is dead before they cut its feet off, right?
Dawn ,'Never Leave Me'
Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Vortex - Jul 16, 2007 5:30:53 am PDT #6712 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Nora Deirdre - Jul 16, 2007 5:33:57 am PDT #6713 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Aw, I'm sorry Daisy Jane.
Also, Aimee, I hope my pep talks come across as... well, pep talks and not me being obnoxious and overbearing. Stupid Mondays, messing with my subtle tone techniques!
Vortex! How was your move this weekend?
Vortex - Jul 16, 2007 5:39:12 am PDT #6714 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
I didn't actually move. the saga continues, and I still haven't closed. Maybe tomorrow. I've gotten very zen about it at this point. Except yesterday morning when I woke up stared at my old celing and thought "I'm not supposed to be here". Luckily, my current landlord was cool about me extending.
Fred Pete - Jul 16, 2007 5:42:04 am PDT #6715 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
Egad, Vortex.
Aims - Jul 16, 2007 5:42:32 am PDT #6716 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Nora, you are, as always, supportive and wonderful and even if you were to post, 'Stupid bitch, take the job and shut the fuck up." I would still read it with the hug implied.
And thank you Vortex, that helps so much to have a somewhat script.
And thanks to All of my Bitches for being so, well, Bitch-like. {{{LOVE}}}
Nora Deirdre - Jul 16, 2007 5:50:49 am PDT #6717 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
nd even if you were to post, 'Stupid bitch, take the job and shut the fuck up." I would still read it with the hug implied.
As if. Hey, if we were at Teppy's brother's bar, I could order you a tall glass of "Shut the Hell Up" [link] and then give you a hug in person. Hm. let's do that!
Hil R. - Jul 16, 2007 6:09:18 am PDT #6718 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Argh. A good friend of mine has her thesis defense today. Last week, she asked if I was going to come. I said, "If you want me there, I'll be there." (For this kind of thing, some people like all the moral support they can get, while other get more nervous if there are more people, so we generally go with the "I'll be there if you want me there" thing.) She told me to be there.
I just overslept. I am a horrible friend.
sj - Jul 16, 2007 6:10:04 am PDT #6719 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Good luck today, Aimee.
DavidS - Jul 16, 2007 6:13:13 am PDT #6720 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
I had a dream last night that I got to hold Matilda. Only in my dream, she was the same size as Dylan, just with more hair. And looked nothing at all like Matilda does in real life.
Awww. She's probably not much bigger than Dylan. She's wearing supercute socks this morning that look like Mary Janes. Also she only woke up once last night.
Toddson - Jul 16, 2007 6:48:01 am PDT #6721 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Aimee, if being a better person, more people would do it ... and the world would be better for it.
In other news - literally - Fox News seems to have hit a new low. The Southern Poverty Law Center (huh?) reports and debunks it.