It's just an object. It doesn't mean what you think.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Connie Neil - Jul 12, 2007 10:04:20 am PDT #6176 of 10001
brillig

Oh, whee, I just figured out why that tooth hurts so badly. It's bloody loose! I was on the phone with the dentist's office, he asked if some of the material they'd put in had broken, I said, "WEll, I don't know, let me check," I reached in, felt something shift and went, "OK, that's not right." Reached in again and gently rocked it back and forth.

And I'm perversely pleased, because no one can say I'm being a wimp when my bloody dentist knocked a tooth out of its moorings! And (whitefonted for the orally sensitive) it explains the "pop" I felt in the night that cut through the lovely synthetic morphine I had taken to go to sleep. That must have been whatever was left holding the tooth in place giving way. I do hope it's not a broken root or three. But I bet it saves me the $500 plus for the crown.


JZ - Jul 12, 2007 10:05:55 am PDT #6177 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Living in sin is fun, but it must be noted that living in marriage often involves cake. But the important part, in either case, is booty on tap.

Tep, does the Boy have a completely and utterly awesome place or an unbeatable deal on his rent, or would it be even remotely possible to consider both moving to someplace new? Which would force him to do some stuff-purging, and also might get you into a place that isn't thoroughly cat-saturated (it'll likely become so over time, but at least you'd start out with an allergenic clean slate).


javachik - Jul 12, 2007 10:06:08 am PDT #6178 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

When is Boyfriend Move In Time? In Normal People land....lesbians are not known for normal.

6-10 months from now, I'm thinking. But it's a lot of thinking. Counseling is coming first!

I remember the joke on E.R. when Kerry Weaver came out as a lesbian. Something along the lines of "what does a lesbian bring to a second date?" "A U-Haul truck."

ETA:

My new rule for thrift shopping is unless I know exactly what I'm going to do with an item, I can not buy it.

This has been the hardest lesson for me to learn. Just because it's an Aquascutum trench in my size for $12 does not mean I need to own a 4th trench coat in camel.


Emily - Jul 12, 2007 10:07:49 am PDT #6179 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

For me, Boyfriend Move In Time was about 6 months, but that was mainly because I was graduating from college and needed a place to live. I think it's quite often whenever the lease comes up.


Miracleman - Jul 12, 2007 10:07:52 am PDT #6180 of 10001
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

I talked to my dad yesterday and he said it would be Saturday or Sunday?

I know only what I am told. Maybe you should call and clarify?


Glamcookie - Jul 12, 2007 10:08:13 am PDT #6181 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

We will "live in sin" until gay marriage is legal (though there is cake).


Zenkitty - Jul 12, 2007 10:09:37 am PDT #6182 of 10001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

...can i just have the cake?


Steph L. - Jul 12, 2007 10:10:44 am PDT #6183 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

the amount of effort it's going to take to get The Boy's place in shape and habitable for an extra human being who already has furniture and is VERY allergic to cats

Sounds like key time to hire someone!

Oh, trust me, people WILL be hired (including People Who Can Make A Bathroom That Teppy Will Not Be Afraid Of Bathing In). It's just -- The Boy has to come around to the idea of that.

Tep, does the Boy have a completely and utterly awesome place or an unbeatable deal on his rent, or would it be even remotely possible to consider both moving to someplace new? Which would force him to do some stuff-purging, and also might get you into a place that isn't thoroughly cat-saturated (it'll likely become so over time, but at least you'd start out with an allergenic clean slate).

The housing market sucks donkey dong, and he can't afford to take a loss on selling his house (if he were to sell it), so for the time being, it's either (1) move into his place after some Tepification, or (2) keep on living 2 places.


meara - Jul 12, 2007 10:11:12 am PDT #6184 of 10001

Mmm, CAKE! I love cake.

remember the joke on E.R. when Kerry Weaver came out as a lesbian. Something along the lines of "what does a lesbian bring to a second date?" "A U-Haul truck."

It's totally true, so often. And then there's "What do gay men bring on a second date?" "What's a second date?"


JZ - Jul 12, 2007 10:11:29 am PDT #6185 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

...can i just have the cake?

I am all for cake on any provocation, or none at all. You need no reason for cake; cake justifies itself.