...can i just have the cake?
You guys had a riot? On account of me? A real riot?
Jayne ,'Jaynestown'
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Zenkitty - Jul 12, 2007 10:09:37 am PDT #6182 of 10001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Steph L. - Jul 12, 2007 10:10:44 am PDT #6183 of 10001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
the amount of effort it's going to take to get The Boy's place in shape and habitable for an extra human being who already has furniture and is VERY allergic to cats
Sounds like key time to hire someone!
Oh, trust me, people WILL be hired (including People Who Can Make A Bathroom That Teppy Will Not Be Afraid Of Bathing In). It's just -- The Boy has to come around to the idea of that.
Tep, does the Boy have a completely and utterly awesome place or an unbeatable deal on his rent, or would it be even remotely possible to consider both moving to someplace new? Which would force him to do some stuff-purging, and also might get you into a place that isn't thoroughly cat-saturated (it'll likely become so over time, but at least you'd start out with an allergenic clean slate).
The housing market sucks donkey dong, and he can't afford to take a loss on selling his house (if he were to sell it), so for the time being, it's either (1) move into his place after some Tepification, or (2) keep on living 2 places.
meara - Jul 12, 2007 10:11:12 am PDT #6184 of 10001
Mmm, CAKE! I love cake.
remember the joke on E.R. when Kerry Weaver came out as a lesbian. Something along the lines of "what does a lesbian bring to a second date?" "A U-Haul truck."
It's totally true, so often. And then there's "What do gay men bring on a second date?" "What's a second date?"
JZ - Jul 12, 2007 10:11:29 am PDT #6185 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
...can i just have the cake?
I am all for cake on any provocation, or none at all. You need no reason for cake; cake justifies itself.
Atropa - Jul 12, 2007 10:11:32 am PDT #6186 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
This has been the hardest lesson for me to learn. Just because it's an Aquascutum trench in my size for $12 does not mean I need to own a 4th trench coat in camel.
The hardest part for me has been teaching myself not to buy things thinking I'll re-sell them later. That leads to boxes of random things hiding in corners for years.
Glamcookie - Jul 12, 2007 10:12:18 am PDT #6187 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
It took GF and I about 3 years to move in together. But she pretty much lived at my place for all of those years before we did.
Aims - Jul 12, 2007 10:12:47 am PDT #6188 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I know only what I am told. Maybe you should call and clarify?
I just tried Jess and the cabin AND Dad's cell phone.
I'll do the stairs and the bathrooms when I get home.
What else needs done? Should we do laundry, too?
I can has waterpark Saturday?
Ailleann - Jul 12, 2007 10:14:45 am PDT #6189 of 10001
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda
You need no reason for cake; cake justifies itself.
The Tao of Cake?
Vortex - Jul 12, 2007 10:14:56 am PDT #6190 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
It's totally true, so often. And then there's "What do gay men bring on a second date?" "What's a second date?"
there was a hilarious skit on Logo - "Lesbian Speed Dating" where they went through an entire relationship (including adopting kids) in the space of a speed date.
Nora Deirdre - Jul 12, 2007 10:15:01 am PDT #6191 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
It sounds like you guys are coming to your decision at comfortable-to-you speeds... if y'all are talking about it without feeling nauseous, then I think you both will get to the point where you're comfortable taking that leap. It's a whole new ballgame, IME.
Our living-in-sin timeline was about 15 months from first date.