These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I -- how about that?

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Jul 02, 2007 10:08:27 am PDT #5127 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

What Bev and Ailleann said re: hyperfocus. I do it all the time, but try getting me to focus on something that *doesn't* capture my interest. It's unpossible.

askye, I strongly recommend picking up Delivered from Distraction and at least taking the self-check test in it and reading the chapter on available meds. If you can read the whole book, even better. I've found that having that foundation allows me to interact much more effectively with doctors/therapists.

However, IIRC, bipolar can mimic ADHD, so you might want to talk to your doctor about whether this is ADHD or whether it's another manifestation of the bipolar.


amych - Jul 02, 2007 10:08:46 am PDT #5128 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I was about to make it a hyperfocus three-peat, but I figured it'd be covered (and I was right!). I'll just add on that subject that the best insight I've seen on ADD is Ed Hallowell's idea that it should properly be called Attention Regulation Disorder and not Attention Deficit Disorder -- it's not that we don't have enough focus, it's that controlling it appropriately is an issue, whether that's giving attention where we need to or tearing it away.

(F5-F5-F5-F5-F5)


Beverly - Jul 02, 2007 10:09:30 am PDT #5129 of 10001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

And I have been rude in not scolding Sparky's PO people, and whatever's making juliana feel bad. And in sending meara's friend all strength and healing vibes and a fervent wish that the universe just back off, now.

Also, hi peoples. Yes it is difficult sometimes to remember the social graces that make us not-alone crazy types. I'm working on it.


Pix - Jul 02, 2007 10:09:37 am PDT #5130 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

t giggling at x-post x-post


Pix - Jul 02, 2007 10:10:25 am PDT #5131 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

And I have been rude in not scolding Sparky's PO people, and whatever's making juliana feel bad. And in sending meara's friend all strength and healing vibes and a fervent wish that the universe just back off, now.

Ack! Yes, this. Social graces are not my forte, though I swear I try.


Toddson - Jul 02, 2007 10:11:20 am PDT #5132 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

A number of years ago the resident manager of my office building had a number of family members living with her, including a grandson with ADD and/or ADHD. I remember the only time I ever spent more than a minute or so with him, he was jumping around and singing, and bouncing ... I was exhausted watching him and I just felt so sorry that he was on this high speed treadmill as a way of life.


amych - Jul 02, 2007 10:11:20 am PDT #5133 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

giggling at x-post x-post

Me, I'm giggling at the fact that I can seriously call it an x-post five posts later, because MY MIND WAS STILL ON THE HYPERFOCUS, DAMMIT.


Toddson - Jul 02, 2007 10:12:16 am PDT #5134 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Sparky, perhaps they're MAILING you a response? wouldn't that be typical!


Vortex - Jul 02, 2007 10:12:55 am PDT #5135 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I'd start there, if only because your GP already knows your medical hx.

also, you'd probably need a referral from them anyway.


Sparky1 - Jul 02, 2007 10:15:05 am PDT #5136 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

Sparky, perhaps they're MAILING you a response? wouldn't that be typical!

I didn't think of that. ::headdesk::

My DH and I were just coordinating on the phone that I bug out of work a little early, and he leaves a little late for class, all in order to try and catch the mail carrier.

She'd better hope my DH is the one to catch her, because I'm so much more dangerous (and angry after listening to the musak) than he is.