Angel: You know, I killed my actual dad. It was one of the first things I did when I became a vampire. Wesley: I hardly see how that's the same situation. Angel: Yeah. I didn't really think that one through.

'Lineage'


Spike's Bitches 36: Did I Sully Our Good Name?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Jun 15, 2007 5:21:24 am PDT #2837 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I figure it's their payback for us making them say please and thank you all the time.

Ya know, I think yer onto something there.

She did it last night round 2-3am. Standing in the doorway to her room, behind the baby gate, crying, "Mommy! Daddy! I wanna go poooooooooooootty!" I got her, asked her if she needed to go and she said, "No. No thanks. I fine."


Cashmere - Jun 15, 2007 5:25:21 am PDT #2838 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

We got Emmett out of diapers by buying lots of cool Disney underwear. He coveted having Buzz Lightyear briefs.

We have every character he loves in underwear AND pull ups. I let him pick out Buzz and Lightening McQueen pull ups and now when I ask him to put them on, he screams, "Noooooo!" I always offer him the choice: Pull Up or Underpants. Nope. He runs from me screaming.

We have Elmo's potty video, Bear in the Big Blue House potty video. We have Once Upon a Potty, Too Big for Diapers and Everybody Poops.

I'm so stressed about toilet training that I want to cry on a daily basis.

I should window shop for corsets.


Nora Deirdre - Jun 15, 2007 5:26:01 am PDT #2839 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Oh, man, I have a new timesuck: [link]

Go see what happened on this date in 1756 at the Old Bailey!

Also, total slash subtext.


Aims - Jun 15, 2007 5:27:40 am PDT #2840 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I'm so stressed about toilet training that I want to cry on a daily basis.

Easier said than done, I know, but try not to stress about it. I finally had to just come to accept that Em is pissed about not controlling where she lives and not going to school all the time and so she's exerting some control by peeing where she wants, not where mommy and daddy want. OTOH, it's been SO HARD to not take it personally and wonder why my child must spite me so. But, it's SO EFFING HARD not to stress about it. Sometimes, I just want to shake her and say, "WHO ARE YOU PEEING FOR???"


meara - Jun 15, 2007 5:29:26 am PDT #2841 of 10001

I wonder if the non-parents get tired of the topic. But maybe it's just like cats or baseball.

Exactly like cats or baseball. Except more interesting to me. :)

It IS a little werid how much it's changed around here, but so be it--change or die!


amych - Jun 15, 2007 5:29:30 am PDT #2842 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Nora's link is indeed the slashiest thing in the history of jurisprudence. (Or, okay, maybe not, but still! slashy!)


Stephanie - Jun 15, 2007 5:33:49 am PDT #2843 of 10001
Trust my rage

Easier said than done, I know, but try not to stress about it.

This is me wrt Ellie sleeping through the night. I know she doesn't need to nurse for anything other than comfort. I'm not going to cut her off, but I'm so ready for her to just lose interest.


Topic!Cindy - Jun 15, 2007 5:34:02 am PDT #2844 of 10001
What is even happening?

Cashmere, have you tried messing with his head, a little? I don't mean actual shaming here, but have you ever made him come into the room while you change Liv, and talk about how stinky, yucky and babyish the whole diaper deal is, and how nice and clean it is to use the potty?

I know Owen's a confirmed nudist (which would be worth if he'd use the frigging potty and not run outside to neighbors porches, buck naked) so maybe that won't help, but it's just a thought.


Cashmere - Jun 15, 2007 5:38:18 am PDT #2845 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Cashmere, have you tried messing with his head, a little? I don't mean actual shaming here, but have you ever made him come into the room while you change Liv, and talk about how stinky, yucky and babyish the whole diaper deal is, and how nice and clean it is to use the potty?

Oh, yeah. Done that. His own shitty diapers and Liv's. He tells me when he's poopy but very casually. When he's tired of the diaper or being wet, he shrugs out of it and runs naked.

I can't even get him to SIT on the potty for a second or two and I can't force him. It's crazy making. I wish Christopher would step up and take the kid into the bathroom with him but he's got privacy issues and doesn't perform for an audience.

I take him in with me, and whenever he asks to "use the potty, please," I take him into the bathroom. Where he tears off toilet paper, flushes it and then wants to climb up and wash his hands. We do this about four times a day.


beekaytee - Jun 15, 2007 5:38:53 am PDT #2846 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

A quick question for Steph and other Bodyglide pimpers.

I walked 8 miles yesterday and got a blister on my little toe (oh, poor me!)...which will make my 5 mile group walk tomorrow less than pleasant.

Does Bodyglide work on feet?

And, now that I'm ready to order the product, I discover there are roughly 15 variations! There is skin, sun, muscle...in stick, lubricant and rub.

Which one should I get?

I'm pretty sure I don't need the sunscreen version since the bits that rub aren't sun-visible.