Don't you trust, however, that the people who are giving the advice think that there are sensible reasons for those particular red flags? I mean, you believe red flags exist, right?
I saw green flags too though. Thoughtfulness, interest, communication.
Be it resolved, everybody in this discussion believes Allyson is a babe, a good friend, a talented writer and worthy of love. We want her to have love and blowjobs. I'm pretty sure Warren Ellis will back us up on that. There are differences of opinion on strategies towards achieving those romantic goals.
You went way past that, though.
I do not regret pimping for Love's Bitchiness.
where on the web can I upload video that I want seen by invite only?
I think that's an option on Photobucket.
I'm arguing that arbitrary boundaries are inimical to intimacy.
Arbitrary boundaries are inimical to intimacy ONLY with the people who fall outside those boundaries. That's why they're boundaries.
Married guys, alcoholics, republicans -- well, YEAH, I'm really really okay with closing off the pathway to potential intimacy with them. For instance.
I do not regret pimping for Love's Bitchiness
You'd be around to pick up the pieces of any collateral damage generated by your pimping, right? It'd be only fair.
It'd be only fair.
ita, you make it tough out there for a pimp.
Don't hate the playa. Hate the game.
Playas only love you when they're playing.
I gotta say I've gotten hurt a lot by pushing my own boundaries when it comes to love. And I regret nothing. I'm not sure all of my partners could say the same.
I regret things all of the time. But, that's my MO these days.
on a completely nonrelated note: ita, Grace is wearing the onesie you gave her right now and its fucking great. Except with her potbelly she barely fits in hers. [link]
You'd be around to pick up the pieces of any collateral damage generated by your pimping, right? It'd be only fair.
I don't think I'd be Allyson's first choice for a shoulder to cry on, but I wouldn't deny her.
Married guys, alcoholics, republicans -- well, YEAH, I'm really really okay with closing off the pathway to potential intimacy with them. For instance.
You didn't enter into your current relationship with an expectation that it would necessarily blossom into love. You were open to exploring it and letting it develop.