It's simple. I slap 'em around a bit, torture 'em, make their lives hell...Sure, the nice guys'll run away,but every now and then you'll find a prince like Spike who gets off on it.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Natter Area 51: The Truthiness Is in Here  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Vortex - May 01, 2007 7:40:20 am PDT #5054 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

The most radical thing, for me, was going without the drinking alcohol at all for those three months. That was more of a willpower thing than anything else, doing it just to see if I could. And I did and am proud of myself for doing it but having a glass of wine with dinner, for example, is something I enjoy too much to cut out of my life forever (unless it became medically necessary that I do so).

I gave up booze for lent one year. I was eeeeevil. Mostly because almost all of my social activities revolve around going to bars/eating at restaurants with wine.


Kat - May 01, 2007 7:54:28 am PDT #5055 of 10001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Maybe it's a better idea to do something less radical then?

Or changing the amount of time? I go three days on almost all protein, and then I go to protein and + grain for breakfast, protein for snack, salad with protein + fruit for lunch, protein for snack, salad + protein + fruit for dinner and a protein snack for the remainder of the time.

I mean, it makes me tired of protein, that's for sure, but is more manageable. And I look forward to my grain in the AM.


lisah - May 01, 2007 7:56:22 am PDT #5056 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

Mostly because almost all of my social activities revolve around going to bars/eating at restaurants with wine.

Mine too! It was hard! But people being really impressed with my willpower helped. I'm a total whore for praise!

In other news, hi, Nilly!!!


Vortex - May 01, 2007 7:59:12 am PDT #5057 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

But people being really impressed with my willpower helped.

Ha! my friends weren't impressed, they were scared -- (whisper) "Steph's not drinking, don't say anything stupid or annoying"


lisah - May 01, 2007 8:08:15 am PDT #5058 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

Or changing the amount of time?

Exactly!

Burrell, I know different things work for different people but it seems like if you're already anticipating the diet being torture for you before you even start it that it might not be the best plan.

my friends weren't impressed, they were scared -- (whisper) "Steph's not drinking, don't say anything stupid or annoying"

haha!

For me the best thing about not drinking in conjunction with trying to exercise more (6-7 days a week) was that not being hung over made it a million times easier to, say, get up and go for a 5-mile walk at 8 on Saturday. Or get through a 90-minute hot yoga class on Sunday morning.


beth b - May 01, 2007 8:09:39 am PDT #5059 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm not fond of the low carb life style - but doing the no grains no sugar thing did ( in a positive way) change my attitude towards some of the 'easy' foods that I might grab for a snack. higher bang for the caloric buck is a plan.


Topic!Cindy - May 01, 2007 8:47:25 am PDT #5060 of 10001
What is even happening?

I'm needing a word. It's that word you use to describe a writer who writes a lot. I think it's "pro-" something. Proliferate keeps telling me it's the word, but it lies. It is not the word. Please help.


brenda m - May 01, 2007 8:48:57 am PDT #5061 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Prolific.


Topic!Cindy - May 01, 2007 8:51:06 am PDT #5062 of 10001
What is even happening?

Bless you, brenda.


§ ita § - May 01, 2007 9:14:02 am PDT #5063 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My diet modification goal is to lower the glycemic index of my foods. Modest, sure, but it's taught me a lot and reinforced my search for less sugar added.

Doesn't stop me from cupcakes, though.