I haven't gone through chemo, but I helped care for Hubs's mother while she was going through it. She had a definite cycle -- worse right after a treatment, then steadily improving until it was time for the next treatment. So, at a guess, the timing of instructions may be a factor.

On the other hand, she had one treatment every 2-3 weeks (being in her mid-60s for the first round and over 70 for the second, plus additional health issues like diabetes). Someone who's getting treatments more frequently may not have the same high points because of shorter recovery time.

And, based on Ginger's comment, it sounds like e-mail is everybody's friend.

Suzi, she's probably equally frustrated. It's really hard to find you can't do things the way you used to.

Dear AssHat -

Nice try. Eff you. I'm taking back my money.

Empress

Get that money, Aims!

Happy anniversary to DJ and DH!

I'm finally home. I have a metric shitload of school work to do, so I'm "working at home" today and tomorrow. I'm going over to juvie hall tonight and tomorrow morning. I am a wee bit overwhelmed.

ETA: I also have a very emotionally needy kitty on my hands.

I like that last version, Aimee.

Happy Anniversary to the Janes!

How's this?

Dear AssHat,

At this time, I am rescinding the original payment of $620.00. Please submit an invoice to me for $252.50. This amount represents 50% of the final shipping cost ($402.50) and a credit of ($150.00) for the transport of the goods to Pico Rivera that I paid Tom Frizzell, Sr.

Thank you - Aimee

Aimee,

Dear Asshat,

Because all information I am getting from [company names] indicates to me that I overpaid you significantly, I am rescinding my payment. Please provided me with hard-copy written documentation of the final charges and I will pay 50% of those for which I am responsible, upon receipt.

In your ear,
Aimee

that sounds good.

Mine or Cindy's?

I still think I'd go more conciliatory (in tone, NOT in what you're demanding). But that's just my own bent. Basically, though, you just need to hit a few points:

• The money situation has gotten confused.

• The deal was 50% less the transport ($150) and Joe's time.

• The simplest, most accurate way to deal is for him to document what was actually spent.

• Until that time, he shouldn't have your money.

• When he

His email certainly sounds like he's either very confused, or trying to confuse you. Either way, I'd take your money back first thing so you're back to square zero and start over from there, and I'd keep everything as short and sweet as possible.