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Spike's Bitches 35: We Got a History  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Apr 09, 2007 7:12:54 am PDT #4218 of 10003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Tea:

I go back and forth on the wedding/eloping issue (not that we are engaged). Part of me really has no need to be the center of attention for the day, since I really get nervous in those situations. OTOH, part of me thinks I will regret not having a big wedding.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 09, 2007 7:20:16 am PDT #4219 of 10003
What is even happening?

I go back and forth on the wedding/eloping issue (not that we are engaged). Part of me really has no need to be the center of attention for the day, since I really get nervous in those situations. OTOH, part of me thinks I will regret not having a big wedding.
My very best friend felt the same way, so she got married in a small room in the hall at which her reception was held. She, her husband, her daughter, his best man, her two brothers, her sister (who was her Maid of Honor), me (her bride's maid), her parents, his parents and Scott were the only people present, I think.

They then came out to the reception room, and had a good time. She didn't have a head table. I mean, wherever the newly wedded couple sits is a the head table, whether you like it or not, but she sat at a round table, like all the other guests.

eta... there were a lot of people at the reception; they just weren't present for the wedding ceremony.


-t - Apr 09, 2007 7:22:57 am PDT #4220 of 10003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

We didn't elope because it was important to me that our wedding be about including our family and friends. We were already committted to each other, the wedding was to let everyone else realise that and celebrate it together.

And it was fun.

I love the happy eloping stories, though. My brother got married by going down to the courthouse to get the marriage license and finding out that the judge had an opening that afternoon, so they did it right then. For them, it was a perfect wedding.


sj - Apr 09, 2007 7:23:25 am PDT #4221 of 10003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I like a small round table for the couple, instead of a big head table. I've seen that at a couple of weddings. Then the rest of the wedding party can sit with their loved ones.


Topic!Cindy - Apr 09, 2007 7:25:44 am PDT #4222 of 10003
What is even happening?

My friend sat with her family at a regular sized round table, which sat 8 to 10 people, but nothing was arranged to make it head table-ish. I actually can't remember if I sat at her table or not. I think not -- I think Scott and I sat with a bunch of our friends, but this was 1991.


sj - Apr 09, 2007 7:41:01 am PDT #4223 of 10003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Does anyone have any good recommendations for hair products? I am looking for something that will make my new layered cut look good but not make it sticky or stiff.


Sparky1 - Apr 09, 2007 7:44:48 am PDT #4224 of 10003
Librarian Warlord

I like a small round table for the couple, instead of a big head table.

This is what we did. Frankly, we didn't get much of a chance to sit and eat, anyway. And since the best man was my DH's 75 year old grandfather, and my maid of honor was my 15 year old niece, a head table just didn't make sense.


P.M. Marc - Apr 09, 2007 7:45:50 am PDT #4225 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Does anyone have any good recommendations for hair products? I am looking for something that will make my new layered cut look good but not make it sticky or stiff.

Rusk Undressed?


sj - Apr 09, 2007 8:15:41 am PDT #4226 of 10003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

That sounds good, Plei. Thanks! Today is the first day I have washed it since it was done, and I am sure I will soon figure out that I have no idea how to make it look as flippy and cute as my hairdresser made it look. ION, I have never seen shampoo bubbles turn quite that shade of pink before.


beekaytee - Apr 09, 2007 9:39:29 am PDT #4227 of 10003
Compassionately intolerant

A neighbor-friend, who writes a syndicated humor column has made a deal with his daughter. "Elope and I'll give you [insert mid-5-figure sum here]. If you have a wedding...I'll come."

He and his wife got married, after being together for more than a decade, by meeting at a judge's chambers during lunch and then going back to work.

Interestingly, their marriage is one of the strongest I've ever seen.