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Kat - Dec 31, 2004 5:58:40 pm PST #9163 of 10000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Gus, quite frankly, we ignore people all the time (in fact, I directed conversation at you a couple of days ago and I assumed you had me blocked because I was ignored). Using your argument, ignoring people at all is damaging to the community.

Blocking people just gives us a technological solution to the difficulty some of us (read me) have ignoring and skimming past those who raise our blood pressure.

And, it seems as if we have had fewer kerfuffles since blocking started. I don't know for sure if that's true, but it has definitely seemed that way.


Gus - Dec 31, 2004 6:10:48 pm PST #9164 of 10000
Bag the crypto. Say what is on your mind.

I directed conversation at you a couple of days ago and I assumed you had me blocked because I was ignored...

Sorry, Kat. I am off Buffistas sometimes for days in a row, and I skip when I come back, so I miss comments directed to me. I would rather have discussions like this than cold silences, each wondering what the other was doing.

I think these sorts of misunderstandings are exacerbated by blockage, myself.


Kat - Dec 31, 2004 6:17:01 pm PST #9165 of 10000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

each wondering what the other was doing.

But we would wonder anyway. Instead of thinking "Am I blocked or not?" we would think "Is he intentionally ignoring me or not?"

Gus, there are no apologies necessary, but to be clear you and I were posting at the same time. The greater point is ignoring or blocking? for me, it's all the same.

Blocking doesn't cause a greater sting than being ignored.


Gus - Dec 31, 2004 6:32:41 pm PST #9166 of 10000
Bag the crypto. Say what is on your mind.

No kidding, Kat, you are one of my favoritests ever. I might have missed your posts because I was laboriously ordering my thoughts to respond to someone else, coupled to my inherent inabilty to rattle the keys.

ignoring or blocking? for me, it's all the same.

It isn't, though. You might have cut me some slack, if had not had to wonder ... "Is he blocking me?"

Okay, maybe it would still have stung as much. When I get cross- or over-posted, I have misgivings, too.


Kat - Dec 31, 2004 6:39:02 pm PST #9167 of 10000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

It isn't, though.

No. For ME (and I'm still only writing for me) it is pretty much the same. I assume some people have me blocked and it's okay. It's most likely not like we had a lot of conversation going anyhow.

If everytime I posted I had to view blocking as worse than ignoring and then extrapolating that out to caring if people are blocking me, seeing it as a referendum on who I am, then it would be insane making.

Luckily toughening up the skin is a resolution for me in 2005.


Beverly - Dec 31, 2004 6:48:09 pm PST #9168 of 10000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

(Sorry for the natter--Kat, email incoming at your profile address.ETA message failed. Can you e my profile with a good email addy? Thanks.)


Kat - Dec 31, 2004 7:20:45 pm PST #9169 of 10000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

(Beverly, back at you)


Am-Chau Yarkona - Dec 31, 2004 10:59:58 pm PST #9170 of 10000
I bop to Wittgenstein. -- Nutty

Am-Chau, I'll get right on that.

Okay, this is bizarre. I got the password reset (when I worked out that it would be at my old e-mail address). However, when I use the new password, I get the same thing as before: it sends me back to index.php, and asks me to log in or register. I can read, but not post or subscribe or anything else that requires logging in.


§ ita § - Jan 01, 2005 7:28:44 am PST #9171 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Dana has problems getting in there too.

Hmm.

Well, I'm going to let it rest for now -- the subscribe bug is fixed, and Gus is working on the other feature I was putting up for test.

When I reopen for testing, I may copy over the current user table, and see if that makes a difference.


Lee - Jan 01, 2005 6:46:16 pm PST #9172 of 10000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

ita, insent with a question about the Firefly quotes.