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Rob - Oct 22, 2003 7:30:00 am PDT #5448 of 10000

If that's the case, then they should be showing up in the SHOW PROCESSLIST query.

Unless it's just a counting error, not an actual active connection.

I'm looking at the source code now so soon I won't just be guessing.


Kristen - Oct 22, 2003 7:56:24 am PDT #5449 of 10000

Okay. Thank you for the information, Tom. I will certainly pass that along. I don't know if it will do any good but I'll give it a shot.

Now on to less pleasant matters. I have to say that I'm a little concerned about some of your expectations. You guys pay FanGeek $20 a month. I, in turn, pay IH a shitload more than that to have the kind of package that you need.

I see people saying, "What have they done for us?" Well, first off, they didn't shut us down, with that one exception where we were suspended for an hour or two, when we were killing their server. For those people wondering what you're paying for, I'm happy to show you the 200+ emails and numerous IM transcripts I've generated on this account alone. [Please note you've only been here a few months.] While you guys might not see yourselves as a problem account, the fact of the matter is that you do present a number of challenges that 99% of the other websites out there don’t.

At any time after the initial suspension, we could have terminated your account. At any time, IH could have terminated our account. You violated our TOS and, in turn, caused us to violate theirs. Fortunately, that didn’t happen.

I feel like everyone wants this perfect hosting solution that doesn't cost too much money. I really don't know what to say to that. I’m not sure what you’re looking for actually exists. We did our best. IH did its best. Steven has felt for some time that you guys have outgrown a shared hosting solution. I can't say I disagree with him.

I’m sorry that it didn’t work out. I think that, at this point, all I can do is hope that you guys find the host you’re looking for and give you your money back.


Lyra Jane - Oct 22, 2003 8:04:03 am PDT #5450 of 10000
Up with the sun

You guys pay FanGeek $20 a month. I, in turn, pay IH a shitload more than that to have the kind of package that you need.

Why do you pay more than we do? I didn't know that, and it's certainly not fair to you. I suspect many of us would be willing to kick in more money.


Jesse - Oct 22, 2003 8:06:23 am PDT #5451 of 10000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Thanks, Kristen. I really appreciate all you guys are doing for us.

The thing I'm wondering now is, is there some in-between solution? Obviously we need more {whatever} than we're going to get for $20/month, but we can't afford the $200/month mentioned upthread, without really changing how we do things. Is there something we could get for, say, $50/month that would do what we need? Just trying to get an idea for our options. Clearly, we need more resources than a typical (non-discussion) site, but what does that mean as far as what's available for us?


Jon B. - Oct 22, 2003 8:07:28 am PDT #5452 of 10000
A turkey in every toilet -- only in America!

I see people saying, "What have they done for us?"

I'm sorry if I came across as ungrateful, Kristen. I didn't mean to. I know that they've been a lot nicer than other hosts would have been (have been!) in the same situation. But if our overloading their server is due to a bug or configuration error at their end, then I don't think it's unreasonable to ask them to fix it.


Astarte - Oct 22, 2003 8:10:07 am PDT #5453 of 10000
Not having has never been the thing I've regretted most in my life. Not trying is.

While you guys might not see yourselves as a problem account, the fact of the matter is that you do present a number of challenges that 99% of the other websites out there don’t.

And I'm wondering if there's something that can be done to eliminate some of those challenges.

At any time after the initial suspension, we could have terminated your account. At any time, IH could have terminated our account. You violated our TOS and, in turn, caused us to violate theirs. Fortunately, that didn’t happen.

Quite true, and that's a huge improvement in our situation from previously. Seriously, thank you for your efforts.

I feel like everyone wants this perfect hosting solution that doesn't cost too much money. I really don't know what to say to that. I’m not sure what you’re looking for actually exists. We did our best. IH did its best. Steven has felt for some time that you guys have outgrown a shared hosting solution. I can't say I disagree with him.

I think that's true of all self-supporting communities, and I've been a member of several. We may have outgrown a shared solution. I know that was the case on another community I'm active in. We did bite the financial bullet, and are on a dedicated server now. I'm not sure what the financial and hardware.resources comparison comes out to, but said community is over 600 members and has had over 150,000 posts since Jan of this year.

I’m sorry that it didn’t work out. I think that, at this point, all I can do is hope that you guys find the host you’re looking for and give you your money back.

I'm really sorry to hear this, Kristen. And again, thanks for your efforts.


§ ita § - Oct 22, 2003 8:11:17 am PDT #5454 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I can totally see why it's not worth their while to spend too much energy on just one user.

It's disappointing as hell, and even more frustrating, because it does seem like a config issue -- but if it bothers one out of x users -- there's not likely to be a return on investment for them.


Kristen - Oct 22, 2003 8:25:29 am PDT #5455 of 10000

Why do you pay more than we do?

Well, you get more connections per month with a semi-dedicated. So we upgraded, about a month or two before we started hosting you for testing purposes, to an SD account. We've moved a few clients over since and are almost at breakeven now.

Clearly, we need more resources than a typical (non-discussion) site, but what does that mean as far as what's available for us?

I don't know of any intermediate hosting solutions. I mean, clearly a semi-dedicated isn't enough for this site. So the next step is more like a big leap.

I know that was the case on another community I'm active in. We did bite the financial bullet, and are on a dedicated server now.

Was that the one that also got tossed by HR? I remember another community that had to move and got a dedicated. I think they went with Dreamhost.

but if it bothers one out of x users -- there's not likely to be a return on investment for them.

That's the other issue. That we have other users to contend with in a shared environment. If we were alone on the server, they might be willing to tweak configuration settings. But when you have other accounts that are doing fine and one account that's having problems, do you change settings for that one account and possibly disrupt service for all the others?

And actually that brings me to something else I should have mentioned. The fact that you guys built your own board, while very cool, is going to lead to problems for you with hosts. Since you're not using phpBB or UBB or some other commercially available package, you're an unknown quantity. No one knows what your code looks like or how efficient it is. When you run into problems, most webhosts out there are going to assume it's your problem and not theirs. You will never get the benefit of the doubt because of it.

So it's just something to keep in mind as you're hashing out your options.


amych - Oct 22, 2003 8:30:18 am PDT #5456 of 10000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Well, if we're stuck looking for a new host, how about an idea of what the requirements are? If we all know, maybe we can share the hunting...

I know we need PHP, MySQL, shell access, but do we have any other particular needs? And what about storage and bandwidth -- what size account were we paying for on IH, and what were we actually using? Also, budget? Are we still looking for something around $20/mo-ish?


amych - Oct 22, 2003 8:31:23 am PDT #5457 of 10000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

edit: didn't need to say it twice. Did need to say thanks to ita, Kristen, Tom, Rob, and everyone else who's working to save the collective ass of our merry band yet again.