I do make my nieces and nephews hug me whether they like it or not because I miss them! I don't think they're too scarred by it.

Code monkey vid made of awesome, beth.

Just with the people who say choice of priest is critical. The late Art Buchwald (Jewish) was married by a priest who ... well no point in details that was another continent and another century. A college friend of mine who is Catholic married another friend who is Jewish. They had both a priest and a rabbi jointly do the ceremony; it took some searching but they managed. A priest who will marry the two of you without conditions you object to ought to findable. He just may not be the first one you ask.

Code Monkey video made of much, much awesome.

I want a Code Monkey dancer of my very own.

I firmly don't believe in a diety. It'd be interesting, I find so many mythologies and such utterly fascinating and engaging, but I don't. It's irrelevent to me. Just... it doesn't matter. At all. I'm me. Take it or leave it, with no real confrontation or challenge in that statement. I'm not denying anyone else. Maybe I'm wrong, but that's not about me.

That is really where I am - I call my self an agnostic when pushed, because the definition that I read somewhere at sometime was that to an agnostic the question of the exsitance fo god - was a question that didn't really matter. It tends to confuse a lot of people.

Someone once told me I am meta-agnostic because I believe it's not possible to know one way or the other whether a higher power exists. When pushed I usually say I'm an atheist.

Plei, you could be a Code Monkey dancer -

ok I gotta go to bed. Too much wine, too much Sperm are from men... followed by Serenity ( which fits with the book) and seeing someone echo how I feel about things. It is rare. and nice.

I believe it's not possible to know one way or the other whether a higher power exists.

I think that's the very definition of agnosticism, isn't it?

Plei, you could be a Code Monkey dancer -

Except I can't dance!

the very definition of agnosticism

The way I understand it. An agnostic says, "I don't know." I say, "no one knows."