Thanks for that thoughtful post Wolfram. I'm not going to get into it any more though. I think my position is that I remain, as ever, puzzled that everyone doesn't think like me. I'm not angry or upset or sulking or threatening to leave or anything like that, I'm just baffled.
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People baffle me, too.
John, I keep trying to find a way to say this so i don't sound snarky, and I'm not sure there is one. But the best I can come up with is that you're reacting very much the way you would if equivalent things happened IRL. Some of us, me included, find it much easier to forgive, forget, and move on in an online situation. I guess the difference to me is that if someone really bothers me here, it's much easier to avoid conflict with them (by scrolling o taking some time off) than it is to avoid someone who lives in your neighborhood or works in your office.
Which is not to invalidate your feelings AT ALL -- I'm just trying to explain mine.
How About:
We're Screwing In Light Bulbs AIFG!
I think my position is that I remain, as ever, puzzled that everyone doesn't think like me.
I think most of us share this position.
We're Screwing In Light Bulbs AIFG!
Hee. I like this.
I have such the wrong image from that thread title.
We're Screwing In Light Bulbs AIFG!
Yes. This.
I have such the wrong image from that thread title.
Which is part of why it's so perfect! It's got in-jokes, double-entendre, witty self-deprecation, and porn. It's truly Buffistaesque.
The vision I had of an Official Warning image is here. It's badly realised because I haven't got Illustrator on this computer and can't do text on a path, but just so you can see what I saw in my head.
I like it, but can't we get a foot in there somewhere?