I couldn't believe it the first twenty times you told us, but it's starting to sink in now.

Riley ,'Lessons'


Bureaucracy 1: Like Kafka, Only Funnier  

A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.

Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych


Ellen S. - Jan 02, 2003 1:35:35 pm PST #2239 of 10001
there is something to be said for the lyric and imperial attitude / believe that everything is for you until you discover that you are for it

Just for the record - really no porn in Natter.

Porn Thread! t /really just joking I agree with the no NC-17.

I vote yes for music. I would be nice to have a place where specific questions wouldn't get lost. I'm sure they'll turn a bit nattery and develop sub-cultures, but I only regret that because there's no way I could catch up in them, and I want to read everything.


John H - Jan 02, 2003 1:35:58 pm PST #2240 of 10001

And nobody wanted to say to "Michael" that it's OK make a personal attack on James Cameron, but not on Allyson, because James Cameron's not a poster on this board?

But that of course brings up the question -- what should we do if he wants to sign up?


John H - Jan 02, 2003 1:37:33 pm PST #2241 of 10001

Oh, and is two months set in stone? Does that seem too long to anyone?


Jessica - Jan 02, 2003 1:37:33 pm PST #2242 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

What Allyson & PM said.


P.M. Marc - Jan 02, 2003 1:38:29 pm PST #2243 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

t tongue enters cheek

But that of course brings up the question -- what should we do if he wants to sign up?

I say we disallow him. We don't need his type 'round here.

t /tounge-in-cheek.


Allyson - Jan 02, 2003 1:38:50 pm PST #2244 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

what should we do if he wants to sign up?

Don't activate that fucker's account is what we do.


Jessica - Jan 02, 2003 1:39:11 pm PST #2245 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

He'd probably just blame us for killing Dark Angel and get himself banned for trolling anyway. ;)


David J. Schwartz - Jan 02, 2003 1:41:36 pm PST #2246 of 10001
New, fully poseable Author!Knut.

"Dear James Cameron:

Your login name is very similar to that of a person who directed Terminator, Aliens, and True Lies, and who said a lot of nasty things about Kate Winslet. If you are not this James Cameron, please choose another login name, as we wish to avoid confusion. If you are James Cameron, we will require some proof, and suggest that you don a flame-proof suit.

Sincerely,

The Buffistas"


Am-Chau Yarkona - Jan 02, 2003 1:44:21 pm PST #2247 of 10001
I bop to Wittgenstein. -- Nutty

t cleans screen

t heads for COMM


brenda m - Jan 02, 2003 1:45:03 pm PST #2248 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

If it is, then I don't think we can do so fairly without the person having the opportunity to mount a defence.

I'm with Allyson on this - every post you make on this board is an opportunity to mount a defense, and especially so after you've received an official warning. I also think that someone who genuinely wanted to resolve a problem would either a) figure out from the FAQ etc that this is a likely place to discuss this sort of issue, or b) ask someone what they could do to resolve misunderstandings and find out that way.

In the situation we've just been through, it was clear as it developed that there was no interest whatsoever on the part of the poster in resolving or even understanding what the objections of the community were. Inviting him over here wouldn't have changed that. How far backward do we need to bend? Shouldn't some of the the responsibility for clearing up your mess be your own at this point?

(FTR, I'm not saying the discussion should be hidden or kept on the QT in any way. If it comes up, it comes up. But I don't think we should feel bad that a specific invitation to start calling people hypocrites in this thread too wasn't issued. Or that we need to make a point of doing so in the future.)