I think if I were considered Old School in some sort of privileged way, I'd drop out in fit of strange, Dadaist protest. It's not in my brain wiring to be considered "in". Some sort of class betrayal. From youthful traumas do mighty neuroses grow.

My neurosis is bigger than your neurosis. Nyaaah.

Nah, I think I'll skip the Duelling Neuroses thing. I can hear the banjos already.

Just thought I'd pipe in, as I seem to have missed the Firefly thread situation coming to a head in the wee hours last night. Going back through the posts both in that thread and here, I think the response of the stompy feet and the community at large was admirably conducted. It's unfortunate when action of this sort has to be taken, but I think a good balance was struck between giving the benefit of the doubt and not allowing an unpleasant situation to escalate.

There is, of course, a certain discomfort involved in banning a poster. But for my part the discomfort is over the situation making it necessary rather than a disagreement with the folks implementing the ban. And I think from a community standpoint, it is better to exclude one person who seems to be willfully seeking discord and confrontation than to allow such a person to take over a thread and drive out the reasonable, polite discourse that these forums were created to encourage.

In short, I look forward to reading the Firefly thread and reading a variety of opinions about the show, its cast and crew, and efforts on its behalf, rather than about one of the thread's posters and people's reactions to him.

Damn you for that earworm, Connie!

it's a small world after all...

Mike, a 'real Buffista' is someone who contributes to the community where and how they can, and abides by the community standards we've developed. I'd say, according to that definition, you're certainly a Buffista, if you want to be.

I just came to say what Suela (and askye) already said better.

I can understand where the feeling of 'not yet a real Buffista' comes from, at least for the time that I've felt it as a relatively newbie - it takes time to feel a part of a group that's already closely knit together, with a 'history' and events they remember together and sometimes are vague about it (remember the Willow and Xander scene in, I think, "Invisible Girl", laughing at some memory, and Buffy, knowing that they're her bestest friends, still felt pretty much not one of the group - that's the kind of feeling I'm thinking about), it takes time to be comfortable to use the slang, to call people by their nicknames and be familiar with the (OK, I practically typed a Hebrew expression here and deleted it) people that are already at the party. But being new doesn't mean the presence is less, just shorter, if I'm making any sense.

Also, I take issue [with] the rather glib, negative and out of context characterizations regarding Mieskie's posts in Cindy's 'nilly' of them. This is not in any way meant to be an attack on Cindy, merely a statement of my opinion.

I'm sorry the link descriptions came across as glib. For the record, before I continue, I didn't take anything Mike posted as an attack, but rather an honest critique. I was trying for a lighter tone, but in retrospect, I can see where it might have come across as glib. I was trying to avoid sounding harangue-ish. Again, I'm sorry.

I was only (in that lighter tone), trying to give a hint at which particular incident to which each link would lead. I don't think there was a concise way to provide any context, because the context itself can only be found in the linked posts and the discussions of which they were a part. My descriptions weren't intended to provide context, just as a book index doesn't.

Sorry, Bets, I'm ear-worm proof. Nyah.

as evidenced by this and our pre-Phoenix discussions on the matter, we don't shut up even after consensus has been reached.

Heh. (1) We looooove to talk. And (2) more importantly, there's a very strong ethos here of wanting to, for want of a better term, do the right thing. Anne described it perfectly here:

I'm glad that we are able to post-mortem, vent, re-hash, and basically just let ourselves get settled again after the Recent Unpleasantness. I was on another board where a member was banned after sub rosa discussion by the mods. The banning took a lot of people by surprise, but unfortunately the banning came along with an edict of We Shall Not Speak of This Again. It led to a lot of backchannel nastiness, etc. I'm also glad that all of this discussion has taken place where any Buffista, from the tall to the small, can read and take part in it.

We may overtalk things, but it's to a good end.

Chiming in with the Buffista-love

That is all.