I'm glad that we are able to post-mortem, vent, re-hash, and basically just let ourselves get settled again after the Recent Unpleasantness. I was on another board where a member was banned after sub rosa discussion by the mods. The banning took a lot of people by surprise, but unfortunately the banning came along with an edict of We Shall Not Speak of This Again. It led to a lot of backchannel nastiness, etc.

I'm also glad that all of this discussion has taken place where any Buffista, from the tall to the small, can read and take part in it. Another board I'm on (not the one mentioned above), created a discussion thread that was only for members #X and lower and those they chose to invite to join the party. Talk about feeling like you're not one of the 'cool kids.' Given that the board was already more than a little cliquish, this did not help matters in the least.

BTW, it's fun to be able to see what people's membership numbers are, but I'm glad that you have to go looking for them in order to find them. I hate when these things are displayed, or when the number of posts a person has made is displayed.

Oh, Nilly, we x-posted -- I wasn't responding to anything you said. (Or anything at all, specifically, other than I'm seeing what I feel is a lot of needless worrying about possible future events. I'm not opposed to endless discussion over what the best ways to build and maintain our wonderful community are, but I don't think we need to be so nervous about how we'll deal with problems. If past performance is any indication, we're really pretty damn good at it, and we should relax and enjoy what we've created.)

I think the point about the use of the term Big Brother is a useful one.

The kind of totalitarian society that was described in 1984 is one where people don't know what the rules are, so they go around in fear of breaking them.

Here we know what the rules are, in broad terms, and we discuss openly the implications of them when we need to.

If this was a secret thread where only certain Popular Kids came and talked behind people's backs, you'd have a point with the Big Brother thing. But you can't have a public "collective Big Brother" -- it's a contradiction in terms.

Rob, I don't think it's really necessary to argue about that. Is my personal feeling. & other people's, I believe, as well.

Well, if anyone's personal feeling is that we've drifted into the land of Orwell's 1984 in the last few weeks, I have to suggest, with respect, that they read 1984 again. Because there just isn't any comparison.

If we spend hours and hours obsessing about "the next time" or "it could be worse," well, the phrase that comes to mind is "the terrorists have won." Straighten up from the paranoid crouch, folks. They'll come, we'll deal with them. Is that Spike hot, or what?

Another board I'm on (not the one mentioned above), created a discussion thread that was only for members #X and lower and those they chose to invite to join the party.

Wow. That's... unpleasant.

That's putting it mildly, RL. Given that I missed out on being one of the 'chosen few' by about a week, I was a bit annoyed, even though I never ventured into the purely social threads on that board. (I'm still a member there, but only because I post my anime fic there).

I was on another board where a member was banned after sub rosa discussion by the mods. The banning took a lot of people by surprise, but unfortunately the banning came along with an edict of We Shall Not Speak of This Again. It led to a lot of backchannel nastiness, etc.

That's exactly what I was talking about! See! That's your collective Big Brother right there. Decisions taken in secret, discussion discouraged, goalposts moved, evidence not brought forward.

Oh yeah, and earlier I was talking about "someone who came here from another online community" and I think Theo said "that's me you're talking about" and it wasn't. For the record.

But it was someone where the two things "has the technical status 'able to delete posts and remove users'" mapped directly to "has been granted the moral authority to decide when that should happen".

This is not true here. And that's a good thing.

I think the only person who tried to label the situation, or us, as Big Brother, was Mieskie, in his last post.

we x-posted -- I wasn't responding to anything you said.

It was just the I wrote my post and then read yours and then realized that despite agreeing with you, it could be seen like I don't - I didn't express myself clearly, that's all.

I don't think we need to be so nervous about how we'll deal with problems. If past performance is any indication, we're really pretty damn good at it, and we should relax and enjoy what we've created.

If this was a secret thread where only certain Popular Kids came and talked behind people's backs, you'd have a point with the Big Brother thing. But you can't have a public "collective Big Brother" -- it's a contradiction in terms.

I'll just go around with the agreeing with the both of you, here. Again.

[Edit: askye, Mike_P "Firefly 2: You Can't Take the Sky From Me." Jan 1, 2003 3:42:28 pm EST]