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NoiseDesign - Jul 12, 2008 9:04:58 am PDT #3318 of 5671
Our wings are not tired

I need some ~ma again. I'm flying back to San Diego tonigt. Please don't let my father die before I get there.


Calli - Jul 14, 2008 3:38:39 pm PDT #3319 of 5671
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I could use some good biopsy test~ma for my dad, please. It could be a form of lymphoma resolved by an 8-week serious of shots. Or it could be non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, which would be much, much worse. We're really hoping for the former, and we'll get the biopsy results tomorrow.


Calli - Jul 15, 2008 1:35:08 pm PDT #3320 of 5671
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Thank you for the biopsy~ma. Unfortunately, it looks like Dad does have non-Hodgkins lymphoma. I'll know more about the staging and prognosis tomorrow.


Trudy Booth - Jul 15, 2008 8:29:02 pm PDT #3321 of 5671
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

My good news isn't as good as the bad news has been bad, but we'll give it a try: I've got a new job.

It starts Monday. Its temp to perm (so the money will be eh at first) but it is with a firm that I very much wanted to work for and pretty much only hires tha way.

So Woo to the Hoo.


NoiseDesign - Jul 15, 2008 9:41:51 pm PDT #3322 of 5671
Our wings are not tired

Dad passed away about 45 minutes ago.


Jessica - Jul 19, 2008 4:44:30 pm PDT #3323 of 5671
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Going darkish for 2 weeks in Canada. Back in August.


flea - Jul 22, 2008 1:59:47 am PDT #3324 of 5671
information libertarian

mr. flea is defending his dissertation this morning at 9. Passing ~ma would be greatly appreciated.

We'll also be going dark soon - probably tomorrow - because we're moving to Athens GA. Maybe up in grey (= poached slow wifi) by Saturday.


Shir - Jul 22, 2008 2:14:31 am PDT #3325 of 5671
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Another attack in Jerusalem: I'm fine.


Vortex - Jul 22, 2008 8:53:13 am PDT #3326 of 5671
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Need some ~ma for my dad. He fell on the golf course on Saturday and hurt his knee. When he was at the doctor on Monday, he went to sit down and missed the chair, thereby twisting the other knee and hurting his shoulder. He's in good spirits and not too uncomfortable. He's going into surgery today, we'll know more later.


Trudy Booth - Jul 23, 2008 7:10:42 pm PDT #3327 of 5671
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Looks like Mom is going to be ok, but she was admitted to the hospital last night hemorrhageing (I'll never spell that word correctly) from what turned out to be gastroenteritis and an ulcer.

The good news is that its not cancer, so far they've been able to get away with just fluids and no transfusion, and though they brought the crash cart last night she didn't actually code. (They didn't tell me that last part until today. The sister who was there wants Hallmark to make a Good Job Not Dying! card.)

The bad news is that they want her in ICU for 48-72 hours. And since I'm in my first week at work (in a job market where it took several months to get a good interview) I'm not going out there until the weekend. Which just fucking kills me -- I'm learning expense report software and fax room procedures while my Mother is being monitored in case she starts bleeding to death again. (That's a little melodramatic. Maybe. - I'm being assured that the ICU is just a precaution. Is that EVER the truth?)

And, just for the comedy of it I suppose, my eyes have been having this freaky allergic reaction for the past three days so they're all swollen and red and start tearing up whenever I look at a computer monitor for more than ten minutes. I've been going from training session to training session assuring everyone I meet that its not conjunctiveitis and sticking a cold compress on them when they just hurt too fucking much. Turns out the only thing less fun than starting a new job with a ziplocked washcloth in my purse is doing so while my Mom is in critical care.

So, good vibes for the Mom for a quick recovery. Good vibes for the Sisters that they get some food and some rest and recover from the crash cart scare. Good vibes for the Doctors and Nurses who bring my Mom a crash cart. Good vibes for me that I can at least appear normal for the next two days until I can get out there.