After taking a month off, I'm tentatively returning. After being here since Buffy was in high school, I thought I might have earned some trust, or at least some tolerance. Apparently I was wrong, and well, I'm wrong a lot. I've been trying to figure out what exactly caused this event - what exactly did I post that constituted "harassment" or "deliberate flaming" or even "homophobia" as several people informed via email.
I was shocked to discovere that my ambigous responses to this imbroglio were immediately and almost unanimously assumed to be "taunting" or "baiting." The worst conclusions were drawn about the meaning of my remarks, and the worst intentions assigned to my intentions. Any sort of penitence was automatically translated as petulance.
This was a highly subjective matter that was taken care of in a matter of three emails between the two people involved. I don't see why the all fronts attack on the board, on email and on IM was necessary, or any purpose it could have had other than an individual poster's desire for retaliation.
But I have been here for years, and I've loved it here and most of the people here, so I'm giving it another try. I do have to say that I don't think I can take another of these attacks. If this sort of thing happens again, I'm gone. It took a month to get over the fear and pain of this first assault, and I'm not willing to devote this sort of time and anguish to a group that makes this a habitual sort of thing.
Madrigal
ps. To the person who wrote to inform me that I was "an immature piece of shit" - my mother is suing you for plagarism.
My grandmother was apparently just taken to the hospital. "Glassy-eyed and unresponsive." Hopefully it's nothing life-threatening, but any health~ma you could send her way would be greatly appreciated, and calm~ma to my mother, as well.
Can I request some surgery -ma for my Grandmom? She's 84 and getting her bad hip replaced today. I know the operation is pretty standard now, and much less invasive and traumatic then it used to be, but surgery is always scary. Actually, she's a lot less worried about the surgery itself then the rehab after. So some easy-rehab-ma would be great. And that the surgery does what it's supposed to and eases her pain and improves her mobility. thanks!
It appears to have been a false alarm. Thanks, everyone, for the ~ma, and you may now let it fly away elsewhere.
Good homes needed for the following:
Motherpeace Tarot deck (with helpful book!)
Celtic Tarot deck (also with helpful book)
The Pagan Book of Living and Dying
A Witches' Bible
Profile addy's best.
ETA: And they're gone. Thanks, folks!
My poor little chariot has been towed away as a non-starter.
I'm looking for houses this month, and have a couple other big expenses. Please vibe cheap repair~ma. This is the 3rd major breakdown in the less than a year I've had her. She's used, but she's mine. I just want her running, and cheap.
A little health-ma for my father-in-law, please, who has surgery scheduled for Wednesday noonish. Apparently there's something suspicious in his colon and he will have it and a few extra inches removed. Information is sketchy at this point, but he's 76 and has been in a decline for the past 2 years or so-- all good wishes, prayers, candles and ~ma appreciated. He is Jim and my MIL is Carolyn.
Thanks muchly, good Buffistas.
My grandmom came through her hip replacement surgery just fine. And, though I'd like to retain some easy and effective therapy-ma for her, I release some Grandma-ma to the world. Thank you all for your kind thoughts.
Buffista Car-ma is good shit, yo.
Apparently the only thing wrong with Regina the elderly Regal is the idiot who drives her left the interior lights on and drained the battery. Duh-oh.
Many thanks for the vibes, and I release the ma back into the wild with hardly a scratch on it.
I'm back!
I'm not even remotely close to being caught up anywhere, and my body clock thinks it's 2 am tomorrow, but if anyone needs anything from me, I am checking and responding to emails again.
Pictures from Korea will be up shortly.
