Spike? It's you. It's really you! My therapist thought I was holding on to false hope, but…I knew you'd come back. You're like…you're like Gandalf the White, resurrected from the pit of the Balrog, more beautiful than ever. Oh…he's alive Frodo. He's alive.

Andrew ,'Damage'


The Crying of Natter 49  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jan 08, 2007 7:05:24 am PST #965 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

See, I feel freakin' skinny as a 10/12

Right?

Now, I get that Joe Millionaire woman's feelings about her weight are just as valid as my feelings are about my weight. I have no idea how tall she is; I never think of a 10 as "fat," but maybe she's, like, 4'11".

I'm okay with her feeling fat at whatever size she is, but I don't like her insipid giggling and crowing over fitting into a size 2. Because it reinforces the message that size 2 should be The Goal for women.

The goal should be the weight at which you're healthy and comfortable. And, again, if Joe Millionaire-ette wasn't healthy or comfortable at a size 10, if a size 2 is the size where she landed to be healthy and comfortable, then more power to her.

And, above all else, I get that it's a *commercial* -- their goal is to make $$$$, and if they can make women think that they, too, can be a size 2, then that's what they're going to trumpet in their commercial, even if it isn't a realistic or achievable or sustainable OR healthy goal for the majority of women.

t shakes fist, just for good measure


Kathy A - Jan 08, 2007 7:05:58 am PST #966 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

I'm starting my diet today, and even if all the stars align and I lose as much as I'd like in the time I'd like, I'll be lucky to be anywhere near my target weight by the time of my 25th reunion in September 2009. But, I'd still be at least 50 pounds less than I was when I graduated, which would be great. I haven't attended a reunion yet, but if I can lose the weight, I'm thinking about going to this one.


esse - Jan 08, 2007 7:06:11 am PST #967 of 10001
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Hey Buffistas, how is recruiting supposed to work? I thought I forwarded my CV, made an appointment, go in and have someone interview me, and then they submit my CVs to jobs. Is that wrong? Because I feel like the agencies are stonewalling me, and I'm not sure if I have the wrong impression of recruitment agencies or they actually are fucking around with me.


Steph L. - Jan 08, 2007 7:08:26 am PST #968 of 10001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Oh, Kathy -- looking at your pictures on Flickr, the one of Chase the dog howling to be let in is SO cute!


Jesse - Jan 08, 2007 7:10:47 am PST #969 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ooh, all of what Steph said about the weightloss commercials and bodies and etc.

I was thinking recently, what was that mall store 15-20 years ago? 3-5-7? I don't think I could ever shop there, even when I was 15.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 08, 2007 7:12:20 am PST #970 of 10001
What is even happening?

5-7-9


Kathy A - Jan 08, 2007 7:13:23 am PST #971 of 10001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Hee! My brother's malamutes are complete doofuses, and great fun to be around. They loooove to be petted, and will make sure to get right next to you for maximum scratching. Unfortunately, they do this in tandem, so you have 150+ pounds of dog leaning into you at the same time.

My SIL is not a dog person, so they are strictly outside animals. But that doesn't stop them from trying to nose their way in when the sliding glass door to the deck is opened.


Theodosia - Jan 08, 2007 7:13:35 am PST #972 of 10001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Back in high school, when I did actually weigh like 125, I was a size 10-11 Juniors. The bones, they don't compress even if the rest of me does.

Granted, high school is long enough ago that sizes have actually gotten larger, but seriously big bones here.


DavidS - Jan 08, 2007 7:14:26 am PST #973 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I was thinking recently, what was that mall store 15-20 years ago? 3-5-7?

5-7-9 Shop. I remember their jingle.


Jessica - Jan 08, 2007 7:15:37 am PST #974 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

And, above all else, I get that it's a *commercial* -- their goal is to make $$$$, and if they can make women think that they, too, can be a size 2, then that's what they're going to trumpet in their commercial, even if it isn't a realistic or achievable or sustainable OR healthy goal for the majority of women.

Also, the size mentioned in the commercial needs to be smaller than the vast majority of viewers in order to get people thinking "Wow, I'd better lose weight!" instead of "Yay, the teevee thinks I'm thin!"