Mal: Then I call it a win. What's the problem? Inara: Should I start with the part where you're stranded in the middle of nowhere, or the part where you have no clothes?

'Trash'


Natter 48 Contiguous States of Denial  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Jan 02, 2007 11:09:39 pm PST #9517 of 10007
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Oh, so they're identical?

Nope.

But even the non-identical twins I've taught end up being confused all the time. At least by me.

There would be less as the time goes on, though, right?

You'd think that right? It has not yet been my experience. The fetal specialist wants me to have an u/s every 3-4 weeks and it's probable that it will increase as we get further along, not decrease.

I still think the prospect of putting one of my medical exams (okay, not the whole thing, just the ultrasound) on the internet is totally messed up.


Laga - Jan 02, 2007 11:12:29 pm PST #9518 of 10007
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Which, poor twins, they will have that for the rest of their lives

Oh, so they're identical?

It doesn't matter if they're identical, or even three years apart. People have been getting me and my sister confused all our lives. When we were five and eight (or so) Mom took us all to get identical Dorothy Hamill cuts and then people would say, "Oh what cute boys you have! Are they twins?"


Nilly - Jan 02, 2007 11:19:55 pm PST #9519 of 10007
Swouncing

At least by me.

Well, those will be twins you won't mix up. Well, either that, or mix them up constantly, the way any parent mixes up their kids (my mom even calls us by the names of her siblings, as if she didn't have enough of us to confuse between them). [Edit: sort of x-post with Laga]

The fetal specialist wants me to have an u/s every 3-4 weeks

That's a little above average here, too. But only a little. At least, from what I know from friends. A friend of mine had a high risk pregnancy because of past miscarriages, and her exams schedule was even tighter than yours. Only it decreased with time, not increased.


aurelia - Jan 02, 2007 11:27:21 pm PST #9520 of 10007
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Hi, Nilly!

Lori wants to put it up on YouTube and I keep thinking, But wait! That's my insides. That's WEIRD.

hahahahah, love that! Oh, and.... TWINS! So exciting!


Laga - Jan 02, 2007 11:35:28 pm PST #9521 of 10007
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

my mom even calls us by the names of her siblings

Mom called me the dog's name once. His name was Butch.


Liese S. - Jan 02, 2007 11:43:47 pm PST #9522 of 10007
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Our family story is that once my mother ran through all the names in our family (there's only the two sisters) and got to Blueberry (the parakeet) before she got to my sister's name.

Everyone always mixed us up, and we were seven years apart, but that was because of the whole being Japanese in a tiny midwestern town thing.

And yay for the announcement! I'm so excited for the twins. Ultrasounds are completely fascinating to me.

About the publicness of it all; our friends who did in vitro had their first "baby" picture up on their fridge -- it was just cells. I remember standing mutely in front of it just profoundly moved. Something about the otherness of it all, about how amazing it is that we have this journey from just a few cells to, you know, us.


Nilly - Jan 02, 2007 11:52:05 pm PST #9523 of 10007
Swouncing

Mom called me the dog's name once. His name was Butch.

We've only had the tiny birds-in-a-cage, and nobody had to ever call them by name, the names that we gave them, which we tried to make as long and complicated as possible, so we never got there.

Whenever my mom does that, I answer "yes, SisterOfMomName".

Something about the otherness of it all, about how amazing it is that we have this journey from just a few cells to, you know, us.

I can't get over how amazing it is. It's as if all the laws of conservation are being broken in order to make this possible. Matter, energy, whatever. And yet, that's the basis of everything that can happen, well, pretty much, with everything.

Oh, and newborns are little aliens, in a way, as well. It takes time, for most of them, to become those cuddly pink adorable things, like Matilda in the pictures that Lee just posted a few posts ago. At the beginning they look and even act quite differently. It's fascinating.


msbelle - Jan 03, 2007 12:41:15 am PST #9524 of 10007
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

oh fun news to read so early in the morning. mac woke up at 2:20, I think with a bad dream, so I went to lay down with him and have just now escaped (which is really how I think of it - trying to share twin bed space with a fidgety/tossy turny 5 year old is a form of torture). Since I am supposed to be up at 6 to get ready for work anyway, it seemed a wee silly to try and grab more sleep. Also? The cats thought movemnt at 2:20 was a signal of morning and are doing the make noise to get the humans moving game. have I said grrr yet, because grr.


Nilly - Jan 03, 2007 12:49:09 am PST #9525 of 10007
Swouncing

Oh, msbelle, sorry about the not-so-good not-so-morning-yet. Can you spoil yourself with something relly good before it's actually really morning, like a hot chocolate or the like? You deserve it.

How are the cats accepting mac, now that you've mentioned them?


JZ - Jan 03, 2007 1:40:46 am PST #9526 of 10007
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Kat, that is the most awesome news in ever! Millions of congratulations to you and Lori!

Ultrasounds rock (at least, once you've gotten the all clear and the scary stuff is ruled out). Painless, fascinating, and (depending on whether your hormones are doing the wacky) can make you all misty with tears of amazement and happiness. What more could one ask for from a medical test?