Excuse me? Who gave you permission to exist?

Cordelia ,'Beneath You'


Natter 48 Contiguous States of Denial  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


megan walker - Nov 14, 2006 10:16:50 am PST #194 of 10007
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

There was the time when I had a group of Buffistas visiting, and I had to ask megan walker to bring a corkscrew with her along with a bottle of wine.

Of course, now I have the mother (father?) of all corkscrews, the Screwpull, which I admit makes me feel very adult.


beth b - Nov 14, 2006 10:19:45 am PST #195 of 10007
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

things that define being an adult for me:

I think it is buying things that I don't want to buy ( Hello, lawnmower) but I buy because the conseqences of not buying them ( huge gardening fees; no food , because no rifidgerator; laundremat) are way worse than spending money.

also accepting that certain things that I have always wanted ( like a swimming pool) are most likely nevers, unless I am willing to change parts of my life that I am very happy with .


Kathy A - Nov 14, 2006 10:20:22 am PST #196 of 10007
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Adulthood for me was when I bought my first major (as in, more than $100 and not a bookshelf) piece of furniture not inherited from family, which was my coffee table and matching end table. When I purchased my first non-inherited couch and spent mucho bucks on it, I knew I was really a grown up.

I still go back to my parents occasionally to borrow (not mooch) money for bills, but not nearly as much as I used to back in the day.

Speaking of money, I've got my performance review in 42 minutes--eeep!! I've already got the printed version, so I know it's decent (meets expectations), but I'm not expecting much for a raise (need exceeds expectations for something really good there).

I've also officially commited myself to applying for the MLS program at Illinois (Internet version of the program) by asking my boss for a reference. Double eeep!!


amych - Nov 14, 2006 10:21:57 am PST #197 of 10007
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Go Kathy A, future Librarian Superhero! Excellent program!


beth b - Nov 14, 2006 10:22:17 am PST #198 of 10007
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

hat will detect the weight you use to press the keys and respond accordingly, like a piano.

DH's does . It was the only real requirement when he wanted one. I know his i s less than 88 keys.


Daisy Jane - Nov 14, 2006 10:22:46 am PST #199 of 10007
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Good luck Kathy!

Is there something wrong with TWOP?


Sparky1 - Nov 14, 2006 10:24:20 am PST #200 of 10007
Librarian Warlord

I've also officially commited myself to applying for the MLS program at Illinois (Internet version of the program) by asking my boss for a reference. Double eeep!!

Go you!


bon bon - Nov 14, 2006 10:25:57 am PST #201 of 10007
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

This is how I know I'm not an adult-- I fantasize about food, other people point out lawnmowers and mortgages and washing machines.


askye - Nov 14, 2006 10:29:43 am PST #202 of 10007
Thrive to spite them

I felt very grown up when I negotiated my raise. Granted I'm still a temp secretary and I don't have many benefits but I did this by myself.


sj - Nov 14, 2006 10:32:02 am PST #203 of 10007
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Having a fully stocked pantry instead of just having ramien and easy mac in the pantry and learning how to cook feels like a step toward adulthood for me, but I don't feel like an adult.