Well, we may not have parted on the best of terms. I realize certain words were exchanged. Also, certain... bullets. But that's air through the engine. It's past. We're business people.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Natter 48 Contiguous States of Denial  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Nov 14, 2006 10:06:27 am PST #186 of 10007
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

bon bon... I was good until you got to sparkling convo.

Adulthood: durable goods. Such as a new fridge. a washer and dryer. A good mattress with a nice bedframe.

And, like bon bon, events. Having a nicely done Thanksgiving meal in your own place.

ETA I felt like a grown up the first (and maybe last) time I hosted my parents for thanksgiving.


Daisy Jane - Nov 14, 2006 10:06:49 am PST #187 of 10007
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

how do you get the ground coffee into the filtery thing in the first place?

I pour it directly from the cannister/bag.

What trappings define adulthood for you guys?

Stuff in my name: bills, checks, credit cards savings accounts etc.

Though I often say that my favorite adult defining thing is that if I want to go get an icee and Kit Kat at 2 in the morning, or go wander the Walgreens, I can!


Hayden - Nov 14, 2006 10:08:19 am PST #188 of 10007
aka "The artist formerly known as Corwood Industries."

What trappings define adulthood for you guys?

Going to a job that I often can't stand because if I didn't, we'd be out in the street. Playing the Elmo CD for the 4th time. Turning down free tickets to live shows because I have to be up in the morning. Putting off buying a new amp until I've saved for it.


amych - Nov 14, 2006 10:10:48 am PST #189 of 10007
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

What trappings define adulthood for you guys?

Life insurance.


beth b - Nov 14, 2006 10:11:24 am PST #190 of 10007
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm going against everyone and say keyboard. - if you get someone that really wants to play , you can get a piano when they want one. and my main reason - getting rid of a paino or organ , even for free seems to be really difficult around here, unless it is in perfect shape. Also - I'm going to add the expense of a regular piano tuner. You want one, really. Plus , ther eare things they can do with the keyboard - like plug it into the computer and ( with the proper software) 'write ' their own music. and soundeffects might capture there interest in music as well.


shrift - Nov 14, 2006 10:12:32 am PST #191 of 10007
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Yeah, a great thing about being an adult is that nobody (excluding legal authorities and the like) can tell you what to do, and one of the worst things about being adult is realizing that you still can't do everything you want.


Cashmere - Nov 14, 2006 10:13:50 am PST #192 of 10007
Now tagless for your comfort.

Yeah, a great thing about being an adult is that nobody (excluding legal authorities and the like) can tell you what to do, and one of the worst things about being adult is realizing that you still can't do everything you want.

I am saving this for my kids when they are teenagers.


Ailleann - Nov 14, 2006 10:16:42 am PST #193 of 10007
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda

My comment on the keyboard would be to find out if it's got weighted keys. On mine, you can turn on a setting that will detect the weight you use to press the keys and respond accordingly, like a piano. Much more like using the "real thing," and easier to prepare for possible future "real" piano playing.

I'm thinking if it's $400, it should have that feature, but you may want to check to be sure.


megan walker - Nov 14, 2006 10:16:50 am PST #194 of 10007
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

There was the time when I had a group of Buffistas visiting, and I had to ask megan walker to bring a corkscrew with her along with a bottle of wine.

Of course, now I have the mother (father?) of all corkscrews, the Screwpull, which I admit makes me feel very adult.


beth b - Nov 14, 2006 10:19:45 am PST #195 of 10007
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

things that define being an adult for me:

I think it is buying things that I don't want to buy ( Hello, lawnmower) but I buy because the conseqences of not buying them ( huge gardening fees; no food , because no rifidgerator; laundremat) are way worse than spending money.

also accepting that certain things that I have always wanted ( like a swimming pool) are most likely nevers, unless I am willing to change parts of my life that I am very happy with .