You want to meet the real me now?

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Jan 08, 2007 9:15:20 am PST #9679 of 10004
Always Anti-fascist!

But I'm so I Don't Think of You That Way Girl. Or One of the Guys, or Why Mess Up The Friendship? I could go out naked and it would be like(sniff, sniff) "New body lotion?" "Yeah." That is, for the tiny number of social invites I get not involving the 10,000 Year Old Democrat. I could pretty well take my mojo out and leave it at home on my dresser.


Connie Neil - Jan 08, 2007 9:19:52 am PST #9680 of 10004
brillig

See, I think a lot of the misanthropy on this board is really social inhibition gone sour.

Plus, most non-us people suck.


DavidS - Jan 08, 2007 9:23:26 am PST #9681 of 10004
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

As with juliana and meara, flirting is as second nature to me. It is a form of active engagement, it's playful and should convey the vital information "You are cool, desirable and interesting!" Which doesn't mean there's intent to pursue that. I could flirt with Scrappy all day because she's just that cool, desirable and interesting, but I would never want to mess with her committed relationship or mine.

Flirting isn't the same as hitting on somebody.


Laura - Jan 08, 2007 9:23:27 am PST #9682 of 10004
Our wings are not tired.

Baby and Mom ~ma

I'm very good at flirting. The problem lies when someone is Flirting With Intent - I just assume that everyone flirts as naturally as breathing, so it doesn't mean anything. This has caused much amusement amongst my friends.

That is part of the problem for the natural flirt. Either people take you serious when, not. Or people don't know you are serious because you are always a flirt. DH#1 said he was crushed when he found out the joyful smile he thought was for him alone was for everyone. Sorry, but I thought the actual going to bed with him part set him apart from the others.

Connie, I don't know what to say, besides I've been there.

As have I. Have also been where I ordered something super inexpensive and water and then the bill gets split evenly. Being on a tight budget sucks. Perhaps you can suggest having the "ladies" get together in the break room. For whatever reason is comfortable for you. Restaurants give you hives. Waiters make you hyperventilate. The noise makes conversation hopeless.


erikaj - Jan 08, 2007 9:23:52 am PST #9683 of 10004
Always Anti-fascist!

Yeah...there is the whole surrounded by hooples thing.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 08, 2007 9:27:35 am PST #9684 of 10004
What is even happening?

I made out with dh, the night I met him, and I'd do the same thing all over again.

In conclusion, make out first, think later.


WindSparrow - Jan 08, 2007 9:27:58 am PST #9685 of 10004
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

"Do you want me to speak slower, or should I find a nurse that speaks fluent Moron?"

Erika, is your tag quoting from you, or from House? Because, seriously, his is the only voice I can hear saying it, even though I have no memory of it from the show.


Pix - Jan 08, 2007 9:28:06 am PST #9686 of 10004
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Oo! B's in labor! Safe delivery~ma for her and the little one!


erikaj - Jan 08, 2007 9:31:14 am PST #9687 of 10004
Always Anti-fascist!

It's from his comic doppleganger, Dr. Cox, from Scrubs.


Aims - Jan 08, 2007 9:33:00 am PST #9688 of 10004
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Kristin - I cancelled therapy this evening, so you don't have to come sit on the baby.