Xander ,'Selfless'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Healthy labor and birthing~ma!
I need to get dressed and go to work. Don't wanna. I love my work, but the doing stuff thing isn't what I want to do today. Also, I pretty much had chocolate for breakfast and now I feel oogey. Which is very very wrong.
I have no problems sending or receiving flirt-waves
This is certainly true. At least half of what I know about Buffista-flirtage, I learned from Hec.
Mucho ~ma sent and visualization of a healthy toddler, well past any difficult times. Ease to them both.
and even when the signals are understood and returned, it takes me approximately 3 weeks of HUGE ROMANTIC TENSION OMG to do anything about it, most times.
We were a while in happening. Tom had to wait out my aforementioned craptacular relationship and the immediate aftermath. So, in the meantime, we had lots and lots of time, within the 'ffista community and then smaller groups, and then just the two of us, to get to know each other pretty well without a lot of pressure. I met Tom for the first time in Feb. 2000 (the first S-ville Buffista gathering!) and we didn't get together till May 2002. I broke up with C. the day after New Year's Day 2002.
We did have some fun romantic tension probably about 3-4 weeks or so before we got together. Again, I never dreamed he felt anything for me like that, so in my mind, it was just fun, safe, flirting and banter.
And I'm like, PEOPLE HAVE LIVES. THEY DON'T NEED ME IN THEM.
That's where you are wrong, Mr. Cow. Lives are better with people in them.
See, I think a lot of the misanthropy on this board is really social inhibition gone sour.
"It's stressful meeting people! Aww, fuck it, who needs 'em. I've got my DVDs to keep me warm."
I'm very good at flirting. The problem lies when someone is Flirting With Intent - I just assume that everyone flirts as naturally as breathing, so it doesn't mean anything. This has caused much amusement amongst my friends.
It's stressful meeting people!
It's not so much stressful as I don't want to bother people.
"It's stressful meeting people! Aww, fuck it, who needs 'em. I've got my DVDs to keep me warm."
Hec, I didn't realize we had already met!
I've forgotten how to flirt. If I ever knew how. I was a cavegirl when I was in the Navy: want, take, have. Very few guys resisted. Now, I find myself having to flirt and I get scared, it's not something I really know how to do.
I'm very good at flirting.
You also have a wonderful gift for understatement.