Mucho ~ma sent and visualization of a healthy toddler, well past any difficult times. Ease to them both.
I'm all up in the law now, but damn it feels good to get my violence on.
Gunn ,'Unleashed'
Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beekaytee - Jan 08, 2007 9:03:42 am PST #9667 of 10004
Compassionately intolerant
Nora Deirdre - Jan 08, 2007 9:04:19 am PST #9668 of 10004
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
and even when the signals are understood and returned, it takes me approximately 3 weeks of HUGE ROMANTIC TENSION OMG to do anything about it, most times.
We were a while in happening. Tom had to wait out my aforementioned craptacular relationship and the immediate aftermath. So, in the meantime, we had lots and lots of time, within the 'ffista community and then smaller groups, and then just the two of us, to get to know each other pretty well without a lot of pressure. I met Tom for the first time in Feb. 2000 (the first S-ville Buffista gathering!) and we didn't get together till May 2002. I broke up with C. the day after New Year's Day 2002.
We did have some fun romantic tension probably about 3-4 weeks or so before we got together. Again, I never dreamed he felt anything for me like that, so in my mind, it was just fun, safe, flirting and banter.
DavidS - Jan 08, 2007 9:04:44 am PST #9669 of 10004
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
And I'm like, PEOPLE HAVE LIVES. THEY DON'T NEED ME IN THEM.
That's where you are wrong, Mr. Cow. Lives are better with people in them.
See, I think a lot of the misanthropy on this board is really social inhibition gone sour.
"It's stressful meeting people! Aww, fuck it, who needs 'em. I've got my DVDs to keep me warm."
juliana - Jan 08, 2007 9:05:11 am PST #9670 of 10004
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
I'm very good at flirting. The problem lies when someone is Flirting With Intent - I just assume that everyone flirts as naturally as breathing, so it doesn't mean anything. This has caused much amusement amongst my friends.
Polter-Cow - Jan 08, 2007 9:08:14 am PST #9671 of 10004
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
It's stressful meeting people!
It's not so much stressful as I don't want to bother people.
Ailleann - Jan 08, 2007 9:08:15 am PST #9672 of 10004
vanguard of the socialist Hollywood liberal homosexualist agenda
"It's stressful meeting people! Aww, fuck it, who needs 'em. I've got my DVDs to keep me warm."
Hec, I didn't realize we had already met!
SailAweigh - Jan 08, 2007 9:08:43 am PST #9673 of 10004
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
I've forgotten how to flirt. If I ever knew how. I was a cavegirl when I was in the Navy: want, take, have. Very few guys resisted. Now, I find myself having to flirt and I get scared, it's not something I really know how to do.
Karl - Jan 08, 2007 9:09:37 am PST #9674 of 10004
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.
I'm very good at flirting.
You also have a wonderful gift for understatement.
Vortex - Jan 08, 2007 9:11:51 am PST #9675 of 10004
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
I tend to think guys are just being friendly, because in my head no one could possibly want me so therefore he doesn't.
a-yup. I'm fun to be around, level headed in a crisis, and know how to throw a party. So, I get why people want to hang out with me. Date me? I have no idea why anyone would want to do that. It's a disconnect, I know
And I flirt like a mad thing. I know how to flirt, but since I flirt without intention, I assume that other people do as well. eta: Juliana knows!
sj - Jan 08, 2007 9:12:17 am PST #9676 of 10004
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
The problem lies when someone is Flirting With Intent - I just assume that everyone flirts as naturally as breathing, so it doesn't mean anything. This has caused much amusement amongst my friends.
I have never been able to figure out the difference between flirting for fun and flirting with intent.