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Xander ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jan 02, 2007 9:10:35 am PST #8441 of 10004
I look more rad than Lutheranism

The problem is my landlord isn't their landlord, so I am not sure if she could do anything. Each floor of this house is owned separately and there is no real condo association to speak of.

Ah. Board of Health, then. I'm serious.


sj - Jan 02, 2007 9:15:25 am PST #8442 of 10004
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ah. Board of Health, then. I'm serious.

I'll talk with TCG about it when he gets home. All of this would be much easier if they would just respect the fact that I am the only one who is allowed to be home all day. I think they work at night, because they're never home in the evenings.


Fay - Jan 02, 2007 9:42:50 am PST #8443 of 10004
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

vw, that is stunningly cute.

And I'm a cat person. But - BLESS.

JZ - sounds like a pretty good plan to me wrt grandpa-wrangling. Hope it might prove suitable?


JZ - Jan 02, 2007 9:46:27 am PST #8444 of 10004
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Fay, sadly, no. It's a nonstarter because I know (sort of) how he thinks, and a reception that does not involve the presence of his actual granddaughter would be FAKE.

It'll work out; I'm just supremely irritated at the amount of time and energy that's going into managing my dad instead of planning for the actual event.


DavidS - Jan 02, 2007 9:50:32 am PST #8445 of 10004
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm just supremely irritated at the amount of time and energy that's going into managing my dad instead of planning for the actual event.

We should stop having events. No more birthdays!


Cashmere - Jan 02, 2007 9:51:37 am PST #8446 of 10004
Now tagless for your comfort.

{{JZ}} Gah. Good luck. It's a tough thing but I hope you manage to deal with the situation--and give Hec's dad the respect and experience he needs as well as what YOUR new, little family needs. At least get some goggles to keep your pretty eyes from rolling away.


JZ - Jan 02, 2007 9:57:47 am PST #8447 of 10004
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

At least get some goggles to keep your pretty eyes from rolling away.

Heh. Costume-party baptism; I'll be going as Mad-Eye Moody.


Fay - Jan 02, 2007 10:06:20 am PST #8448 of 10004
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Arse.

People suck.


sj - Jan 02, 2007 10:08:04 am PST #8449 of 10004
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

JZ, is it possible to have a small gathering after the baptism where you can spend time with Hec's dad and let your dad throw the big shindig he wants to have the following week?


DavidS - Jan 02, 2007 10:11:10 am PST #8450 of 10004
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

and let your dad throw the big shindig he wants to have the following week?

We don't want a big shindig at all. It's a Thing. The extended family of Greek cousins is moneyed and they have very elaborate events, and everybody keeps score and it's a conspicuous display. Some of the cousins live well beyond their means to maintain this form of hierarchical posturing. That ain't us. And the sooner her Dad adjusts his expectations on this subject, the better.