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Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

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quester - Jan 01, 2007 12:01:48 pm PST #8316 of 10004
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Fibromyalgia is belived to be caused at least in part by someone's inability to get into the deepest sleep state, I believe it is called Delta. It is a deeper stage than REM sleep.

Also, dreams are believed to only last a few seconds or minutes at most, so you might just be passing through REM on the way to waking.

Are you as tired when you wake up as when you go to sleep? If so, you definitely have a problem.


beth b - Jan 01, 2007 12:04:13 pm PST #8317 of 10004
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Interesting - I usually remember a dream , maybe two. Not quite so much with diabetes/asthma/allergies under control. ( sleeping way better) . And I do know the nights where the dreaming keeps me awake.


beth b - Jan 01, 2007 12:09:09 pm PST #8318 of 10004
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Are you as tired when you wake up as when you go to sleep?

I am really curious about this concept. ( this has nothing to do with Kristin) becasue i get up pretty close to the same time every day - with and without an alarm. It takes about an hour before I can tell anyone how I feel.


Frankenbuddha - Jan 01, 2007 12:26:07 pm PST #8319 of 10004
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

I posted my take on the whole thread idea in Bureaucracy, but I wanted to take moment to remember Gus here and lift a glass of single malt to his memory.

His bar posts were a joy around the time I delurked, so here's one over the lips and through the gums; look out stomach here it comes...

To GUS!


Burrell - Jan 01, 2007 12:27:15 pm PST #8320 of 10004
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Kirstin, I was going to say something along the lines of what quester said, that the dreams themselves are probably only a symptom of light sleeping, not a cause of bad sleep. You are probably remembering them simply because you are waking up, at least a bit, after them.

I am a very light sleeper too, and much as I'd like to find a medical miracle to fix it for me, my situation right now (two wee kids) precludes any pharmaceutical answers. But if you talk to a doctor about possible causes or simple lifestyle changes that can help, I'd be interested.


Cass - Jan 01, 2007 12:28:57 pm PST #8321 of 10004
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

My spider detector is going off like whoa and I can't see what she's mirping at. Now Puppycat and I are both intently looking at the walls like they are going to do something interesting.


Zenkitty - Jan 01, 2007 12:31:07 pm PST #8322 of 10004
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Kristin, if you're interested in natural remedies, you could try valerian or passion flower to calm your sleep. I use passion flower almost every night. It really helps me sleep, without making me groggy in the morning.


Burrell - Jan 01, 2007 12:33:01 pm PST #8323 of 10004
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I find valerian can get me to sleep but it can't keep me there.


Lee - Jan 01, 2007 12:38:26 pm PST #8324 of 10004
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Kristin, do you have a sense of when in the night your most vividly remembered dreams happen?

I have no idea if this is applicable to you, but I've found for myself that if I wake up/get woken up early, and then try to go back to sleep (real sleep, I mean, not hitting the snooze button sleep), if I can't be asleep for at least two hours, it's just not worth it because of my dreams. For some reason, I almost always dream in thtat situation, I always remember them, and they leave me feeling less rested because of it.


brenda m - Jan 01, 2007 12:41:17 pm PST #8325 of 10004
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, and no caffeine 4 hours or so before bedtime.

Caffeine actually stays in your system much longer than that - if it is causing a sleep issue, you really shouldn't have any except in the couple of hours after you get up. Sucky.