Cat on chest led to posting before I planned. At least I will know what a heart attack feels like.
Like being felt up by a cat?
(see? even SPP can't alway find the obvious pussy joke)
Spike ,'Sleeper'
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Cat on chest led to posting before I planned. At least I will know what a heart attack feels like.
Like being felt up by a cat?
(see? even SPP can't alway find the obvious pussy joke)
Hey, bug!
I just had to chase Kittenish down to remove a purple bandage from her leg. Vets shouldn't put dark purple bandage wraps on dark black cats. Because I fail to notice them for a couple of days.
{{{Daisy Jane}}} I'm so sorry, hon. You all are in my thoughts. Much ~ma headed your way.
Oh Daisy! Oh how awful. I'm so sorry.
{{{DJ}}}. He sounds wonderful. Peaceful thoughts to you all.
Awww, Daisy, I remember your stories about those summers.
But you know that sounds like a life well lived. And well loved.
So sorry, Daisy. 96 good years is wonderful but it is still hard at the end.
Like being felt up by a cat?Like a small purring elephant sitting on my chest.
I know, there should have been a pussy joke in there but I can't often find it.
Oh, Daisy, I'm so sorry. That's so hard. He sounds like a wonderful man, and one who loves you very much.
sometimes I'm weary of being his keeper
if you both do this for each other , then you are not being a keeper, you're being a partner. I am really good about helping my DH figure out how to respond to people who make him angry. His past response to anger was just to end the relationship instantly, whether in business or personal life. Not laways the healthiest choice. He burns less bridges no and in trying to understand before reacting. This involves me vetting his emails in tense situations before he sends them and also having long conversations about motivations and outcomes. And I mean LONG.
For his part, he is good about encouraging me to stand up for myself and feel good about putting my needs first. This involves pep talks and picking up slack when needed and and sometimes pushing me. I know it can't awlays be fun for him.
We complement each other.
"I'm sorry, I have to step away a moment - my monkey says I'm being an asshole."
This might need to be a tagline.