Inara: You don't have to die alone. Mal: Everybody dies alone.

'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 33: Weeping, crawling, blaming everybody else  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Dec 22, 2006 11:55:44 am PST #6995 of 10004
Always Anti-fascist!

I suppose I'll take World Peace in my own hands, as usual.


Aims - Dec 22, 2006 11:57:55 am PST #6996 of 10004
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Or, anyone in LA want to go to the show with me? It's this [link] show?


SuziQ - Dec 22, 2006 12:04:13 pm PST #6997 of 10004
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Send her up here....


beth b - Dec 22, 2006 12:06:52 pm PST #6998 of 10004
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I finally got some baking powder in half sized jars - it still goes past the experation date.

so glad Ellie is home and well.

I'm trying to imagine David is unmatched shoes - it does not compute.

As suspected, my breathing is better as the air quality improves. However, I would prefer to breath better.


Vortex - Dec 22, 2006 12:14:04 pm PST #6999 of 10004
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I've used old (way more than 6 months--probably more like 24) baking powder and it leavened just fine. You're at no health risk from it, anyway.

yeah, I know, just worried that the cake won't rise. a chef friend told me to put a little of it in a bowl, add a little vinegar If it foams, it's still good. Probably not as good as fresh, but still will work.


Connie Neil - Dec 22, 2006 12:33:06 pm PST #7000 of 10004
brillig

slumbernut

Because I can.


beekaytee - Dec 22, 2006 12:34:18 pm PST #7001 of 10004
Compassionately intolerant

Did this person tell you they're an Aspie, or do others suspect it?

Tommyrot, sorry...I stepped away.

A friend suspects that Fela is an Aspie. I never really thought about it, but in looking over the symptom lists and the DSM, I'm thinking there is a strong possibility.

If it's so, then it's the good news and the bad news being the same. His social awkwardness, detachment, difficulty with change and overt rudeness with no awareness would be explained away. So yay. The fact that I'll likely never be okay with these aspects of his behavior...not so yay.

It's a real struggle. Do I discuss this with him?

Same friend says I should'nt because it will 'give him an out' if he ISn't Aspie but...isn't the effect the same?

I just dunno.

I have such a hard time reconciling his obvious strong points with this other behavior stuff...and after a year of things being pretty much as they are, I'm wondering about continuing. He's a really good friend. And has superior talents in some ways that are super important to me, but as a boyfriend...he sort of sucks.

I don't want to be angry with him, or to nag him about things that can't change.


Deena - Dec 22, 2006 12:59:08 pm PST #7002 of 10004
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

I really don't know anything about aspergers other than that I sometimes wonder if I could be explained away with it.

I have been rearranging my house in preparation for holiday events and I have one bookshelf that will NOT stand up straight. I'm hoping filling the shelves will sort of force it upright. Any suggestions that don't require ripping the bookshelf out and burning it? Cuz I kinda need it for now.


vw bug - Dec 22, 2006 1:00:42 pm PST #7003 of 10004
Mostly lurking...

Poor Deena!

I just spent the day helping my SIL get ready for a wedding. The hall is GORGEOUS. But, the wedding colors? Red, white, and blue.


Sean K - Dec 22, 2006 1:15:29 pm PST #7004 of 10004
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Shit. I'm working at the theater all day today, Aims, or I'd happily come out and watch the runt, even though I'm BURNING with JEALOUSY over those tickets.