Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Oct 25, 2006 10:25:40 am PDT #8718 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, I can't wait to see pictures.


SuziQ - Oct 25, 2006 10:36:16 am PDT #8719 of 10000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Ahhhh, gotcha. Thanks, Steph. They are beautiful.

One day. One day. Well, I'll also need to find someone to lace me in, but I'll worry about that when I can afford one.


beth b - Oct 25, 2006 11:04:16 am PDT #8720 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

my brain is in a rut. Which happens when I can feel the seasons changeing, I think. So I want to be something different , but really can't think of anything different that I want to do . so I feel like everthing is boreing, even though I'm not really bored. It is sort of like futless- but there is no energy. and it is vaguely fake. It might be that urge to prep for winter , even though winter isn't the same as the winter I grew up with. My brain is whiney.


Daisy Jane - Oct 25, 2006 11:06:27 am PDT #8721 of 10000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

My friend and I were talking the other day about fall making us manic and itchy. I prefer spring.


brenda m - Oct 25, 2006 11:12:44 am PDT #8722 of 10000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, not me. Fall is comfortable, spring makes me antsy.


beth b - Oct 25, 2006 11:13:53 am PDT #8723 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I really love fall and spring - I feel most alive then , but I go through some 'bad' days that feel really illogical.partly, it is the unpredictability of the weather/temperature, etc. . partly, it is the allergies.


esse - Oct 25, 2006 11:15:28 am PDT #8724 of 10000
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

in not-as-sexy-as-teppy pictures, here's some from my trip to the west coast of ireland: [link]

It was gorgeous.


P.M. Marc - Oct 25, 2006 11:24:53 am PDT #8725 of 10000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I can't order a corset until I have a stable job and a stable weight.

No matter how tempting it is to say to heck with it and get one.


Atropa - Oct 25, 2006 11:30:32 am PDT #8726 of 10000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I shouldn't order a new corset until I'm done losing weight. No matter how very much I want a new one.


Steph L. - Oct 25, 2006 11:48:37 am PDT #8727 of 10000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I shouldn't order a new corset until I'm done losing weight. No matter how very much I want a new one.

See, I feel that way, too. But Meschantes recommends ordering a size 4-6 inches smaller than your natural waistline, because their corsets can -- with proper training -- reduce your waist by that much.

Meaning, my waist would have to shrink 6 inches for the cincher to close entirely in the back. More than 6 inches, and it won't be wearable.

Now, I have lost 2(ish) inches off my waist, but that's been over (roughly) 2-3 months. So I figure that 6 more inches would be at least 9 months, but likely longer. Meaning, I'll be able to wear this cincher for quite a while before it's too big.

Assuming I continue the downward weight trend.

Which I'd better.