Ah, the pitter patter of tiny feet in huge combat boots. Shut up!

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

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Nora Deirdre - Oct 17, 2006 8:42:11 am PDT #7492 of 10000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

sj, is the holiday money for presents? If that is the case, perhaps a re-evaluation of that might take care of the issue on the other side? Like, perhaps do crazy cookie baking- I know one person who does INSANE holiday cookie stuff- these cookies are so amazing... different kinds, etc... and you could package them relatively inexpensively and give them as gifts?

My personal thing is, I would hate to think of someone I care about suffering to get me a freaking Christmas present. I'm pretty anti-Christmas present. The whole obligation aspect of it, that is.

Take it with a grain of salt, I'm pretty stupid with the Occasion gift giving thing- I am pretty much not a fan, either giving or recieving. This is only one of many reasons of why I suck. For me, food, beverage, and time spent together trumps pretty much any other thing that someone could buy for me, and this is why I have trouble getting stuff for other people who aren't wired freaky like me.


sj - Oct 17, 2006 8:46:59 am PDT #7493 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, is the holiday money for presents? If that is the case, perhaps a re-evaluation of that might take care of the issue on the other side? Like, perhaps do crazy cookie baking- I know one person who does INSANE holiday cookie stuff- these cookies are so amazing... different kinds, etc... and you could package them relatively inexpensively and give them as gifts?

It's partly presents, partly because I want extra money to pay down debt and add to savings, and partly because I really feel like I need to be doing something right now. Teacup Guy and I made a plan for presents and I am cutting way back by making gift baskets, which I can do cheaply and still make them look pretty. I don't feel I can/want to cut out presents entirely. Giving gifts is important to me, which I know is kind of crazy.


Daisy Jane - Oct 17, 2006 9:01:28 am PDT #7494 of 10000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Some sort of clerical or receptionist work might be good. Maybe somewhere with puppies or interesting people or in a field you might like to work in one day.


sj - Oct 17, 2006 9:03:27 am PDT #7495 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Some sort of clerical or receptionist work might be good. Maybe somewhere with puppies or interesting people or in a field you might like to work in one day.

I have looked into this, but sadly most of them want too many hours and pay too much per hour for me to take them.


askye - Oct 17, 2006 9:05:10 am PDT #7496 of 10000
Thrive to spite them

sj - have you tried checking with a temp agency about doing short term clerical assignments?


sj - Oct 17, 2006 9:06:44 am PDT #7497 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj - have you tried checking with a temp agency about doing short term clerical assignments?

That's a good idea. I checked the temp agencies in RI a while back, but only wanted full time people. I haven't checked any temp agencies here yet.


Daisy Jane - Oct 17, 2006 9:08:44 am PDT #7498 of 10000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

You know, I once got a short part-time gig doing research for an author. That kinda just fell in my lap, but is there anything you do really well that you could offer at a bargain?


brenda m - Oct 17, 2006 9:09:25 am PDT #7499 of 10000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I guessing there's more of a demand for P/T temps around the holidays. Or at least it stands to reason there would be.

If it's important to you, it's not crazy. Just don't get too rigid about what and how much and for who.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 17, 2006 9:10:30 am PDT #7500 of 10000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

If it's important to you, it's not crazy.

This!


sj - Oct 17, 2006 9:12:30 am PDT #7501 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

is there anything you do really well that you could offer at a bargain?

I'm pretty much convinced I suck at everything right now.

If it's important to you, it's not crazy. Just don't get too rigid about what and how much and for who.

I'm pretty flexible where I can be. I just have to be very careful not to make enough to frell with my benifits.