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'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Oct 17, 2006 9:03:27 am PDT #7495 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Some sort of clerical or receptionist work might be good. Maybe somewhere with puppies or interesting people or in a field you might like to work in one day.

I have looked into this, but sadly most of them want too many hours and pay too much per hour for me to take them.


askye - Oct 17, 2006 9:05:10 am PDT #7496 of 10000
Thrive to spite them

sj - have you tried checking with a temp agency about doing short term clerical assignments?


sj - Oct 17, 2006 9:06:44 am PDT #7497 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj - have you tried checking with a temp agency about doing short term clerical assignments?

That's a good idea. I checked the temp agencies in RI a while back, but only wanted full time people. I haven't checked any temp agencies here yet.


Daisy Jane - Oct 17, 2006 9:08:44 am PDT #7498 of 10000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

You know, I once got a short part-time gig doing research for an author. That kinda just fell in my lap, but is there anything you do really well that you could offer at a bargain?


brenda m - Oct 17, 2006 9:09:25 am PDT #7499 of 10000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I guessing there's more of a demand for P/T temps around the holidays. Or at least it stands to reason there would be.

If it's important to you, it's not crazy. Just don't get too rigid about what and how much and for who.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 17, 2006 9:10:30 am PDT #7500 of 10000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

If it's important to you, it's not crazy.

This!


sj - Oct 17, 2006 9:12:30 am PDT #7501 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

is there anything you do really well that you could offer at a bargain?

I'm pretty much convinced I suck at everything right now.

If it's important to you, it's not crazy. Just don't get too rigid about what and how much and for who.

I'm pretty flexible where I can be. I just have to be very careful not to make enough to frell with my benifits.


SailAweigh - Oct 17, 2006 9:18:12 am PDT #7502 of 10000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

sj, I would look for light manufacturing of products that are in high demand this time of year or have high catalog sales. Around here a lot of people go to work for American Girl and Land's End during the holiday season. They don't need full-time, just part-time for a couple of months. You might even hear them advertising for seasonal help on the radio.


Cashmere - Oct 17, 2006 9:22:33 am PDT #7503 of 10000
Now tagless for your comfort.

{{JZ}} I know it all sucks no matter how it shakes out--both the expense and the fact that you have to put Matilda in daycare at 4 months. When I had Owen, I didn't realize the lack of real, paid maternity leave at my company. They sort of lead me on that I'd get "short term disability" for up to 12 weeks--only they only certify you off for a vaginal delivery for six weeks. And you have to be off for a month before you can collect this short term disability. So, in fact, their maternity leave consists of 2 weeks at 60% pay. Which is shit. I actually cried in my doctor's office when I found that out. And the cost of daycare is what ultimately led me to stay home.

Lack of adequate PAID maternity (and paternity) leave in this country is criminal to me, as is affordable daycare. I know a woman that had to go back to work at six weeks and I felt so bad for her.

I hope you can work through the stress and enjoy the time you have at home with Matilda.


Topic!Cindy - Oct 17, 2006 9:26:14 am PDT #7504 of 10000
What is even happening?

I could get 12 weeks unpaid (thank you, Bill Clinton, because you're the only one who cut me a break), and take whatever earned time (sick + vacation) I had in the bank, for those twelve weeks, but could not tap into any disability insurance, and there was no such thing as paid maternity leave. At a hospital.

I didn't have 12 weeks of time, but my doctor had made me cut down to 20 hours per week, the last couple of weeks I worked, so I kept getting my check at 20 hours, rather than 40, which stretched it out a little longer. It was no more money, but the opportunity to spend it was restricted by getting less at once. I was leaving though, so it didn't matter.