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'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

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WindSparrow - Oct 02, 2006 8:18:01 am PDT #5700 of 10000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Health~ma for SA's friend, and lots of punctuation to SA.

Mental health~ma for Nora's friend along with plenty of punctuation to Nora. It may give your friend a useful reality check to say something along the lines of "I care so deeply about you that when I read x email, I was concerned you might be suicidal, and I would hate to see you give up on life when depression is so treatable. Yes, you are suffering from depression, and I hope you find a way to get the treatment you need. But when you say ____ and ____ to me, it's abusive, and I can't accept being treated that way. Your life is ultimately your responsibility, so you will get help when you are ready. If and when you are ready for my support, I'll be here." Not recommending cutting and running here, just taking a break so as not to reinforce her bad behavior, if that makes sense.


esse - Oct 02, 2006 8:19:19 am PDT #5701 of 10000
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Yeah. It does. He's already battled a major heart condition, too, almost four years ago now. There was heart surgery then, and a year of recovery. To have to do another round of hospitals and treatment...it's just a kick in the balls from life. But if anyone can do it, he can.


vw bug - Oct 02, 2006 8:25:55 am PDT #5702 of 10000
Mostly lurking...

Oh, SA, that's so tough. Much ~ma to your friend...and to you too.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 02, 2006 8:26:37 am PDT #5703 of 10000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

SA, I am so sorry about your friend. I hope that it is easily treated, but I am so sorry that you're so far away from him right now.

Thanks for all the advice/thoughts/punctuation. I am alternating between really pissed off and really, really, horribly sad. One thing I know- there will be no response today, or until I'm ready to give one, and have thought things through.


sj - Oct 02, 2006 8:27:34 am PDT #5704 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{SA}}}


Volans - Oct 02, 2006 8:28:24 am PDT #5705 of 10000
move out and draw fire

{{{SA}}} and for Krys too. He's really getting shit for health luck.

So, it appears there's now Evil Dead: The Musical [link]


Pix - Oct 02, 2006 8:33:31 am PDT #5706 of 10000
The status is NOT quo.

The potty and the "WANT BALLS!" stories have killed me DED. Em is good at that, the wee elven cutiepie.

may the pain in the butt (not ND) go away quickly, too.

Laughing now. A lot.

Mental health~ma to SA's friend and hugs for {{{{SA}}}}.

Ditto for Nora and her friend. That sucks, love. Try to take care of yourself too, ok?

KB, your care for Gracie is such a beautiful thing, and that image of her rubbing up against you this morning makes me tear up.

niecphews

I agree with Cass: love this word and will snuggle it.

Eeee Matilda pictures! Man, that kid is almost as adorable as Pete!

t runs away


Cass - Oct 02, 2006 8:40:54 am PDT #5707 of 10000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

*Such* a good word the neicphews are! And it eased up my little stress issue of what I would call the new ones. Neicelet and nephlet are individuals to me, not generic labels.


JenP - Oct 02, 2006 8:46:08 am PDT #5708 of 10000

Treatment and dealing-ma to your friend, SA. I'm so sorry. Also, virtual hugs to you - being so far away when you want to be right there sucks.

Nora, dealing-ma to you, too. That's such a hard situation.

Cass - I don't think I've congratulated you on your additional, double auntie-hood. Welcome to the world, Paolo and Ava! Hope everyone's doing well.


Sparky1 - Oct 02, 2006 8:50:29 am PDT #5709 of 10000
Librarian Warlord

It is the word I use to discuss my nieces & nephews collectively, and I'm glad it has found new baby-life.

SA, my good thoughts for your friend. He sounds like a remarkable person.

{{Nora}} I know you'll handle it well.

I just ran a meeting and the person who never volunteers for anything didn't volunteer again! If she ever offers to do anything beyond the very minimum, I will fall off my chair in a dead faint.