I certainly hope it is just no big deal, except in the areas where it should be.
Danger's my birthright.
Buffy ,'The Killer In Me'
Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
§ ita § - Aug 28, 2006 7:34:20 am PDT #485 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Jars - Aug 28, 2006 7:34:56 am PDT #486 of 10000
Heh. Well, thankyou. It's not like I'm upset about it. Just a little perturbed by all the crap we have to do to get it sorted. If we get married in Ireland, we have to give three months notice before the ceremony. SO we'll probably get married in Sheffield, which brings with it its own problems. Then there's immigration and tax and stuff...
erikaj - Aug 28, 2006 7:35:07 am PDT #487 of 10000
Always Anti-fascist!
Best wishes.
sj - Aug 28, 2006 7:36:22 am PDT #488 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Congratulations, Jars.
Yay, for the job {{{Calli}}}
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We're home from vacation. The financial aid office at my school seems to have frelled my financial aid, but they will hopefully fix it. I'm not sure what part of, "I don't make enough money to file taxes" they don't understand.
SailAweigh - Aug 28, 2006 7:39:40 am PDT #489 of 10000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
vw, I hope the girly problems get all straightened out, post-haste. It's no fun what you're going through.
Whoot! for Calli with the AIDS fighting job! Wonderful way to earn a paycheck and help your fellow man at the same time.
Whoot! for Jars, too! I think the loving each other is all that matters. Keep us informed, for we must send many Buffista-like presents to mock celebrate your new status.
Glamcookie - Aug 28, 2006 7:41:17 am PDT #490 of 10000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Congrats to Calli! And to Jars!
A cold has reared its ugly head. It has to be out Out OUT by Friday.
Jars - Aug 28, 2006 7:43:09 am PDT #491 of 10000
I think the loving each other is all that matters.
This is pretty much what we're thinking. I get to live with my best friend, how is that NOT cool? Plus, sex!
amych - Aug 28, 2006 7:50:12 am PDT #492 of 10000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
I get to live with my best friend, how is that NOT cool? Plus, sex!
Seriously! Best thing ever!
Keep your eye on that part, and the whole being-rushed-by-the-circumstances business will just be something that pushed you to make a decision sooner than you might've otherwise. All the time in the world (and no squidgy feelings about the freaky social power structures inherent in marriage) is a nice luxury to have, but if you're sure about le bloke, it's worth just doing it.
Sparky1 - Aug 28, 2006 7:53:31 am PDT #493 of 10000
Librarian Warlord
vw, I hope you feel better soon.
Jars, congratulations! Marrying your best friend = teh awesome.
P.M. Marc - Aug 28, 2006 8:03:01 am PDT #494 of 10000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Yeah, what amych said.