You'll fight, and you'll shag, and you'll hate each other till it makes you quiver, but you'll never be friends.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SailAweigh - Aug 28, 2006 7:39:40 am PDT #489 of 10000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

vw, I hope the girly problems get all straightened out, post-haste. It's no fun what you're going through.

Whoot! for Calli with the AIDS fighting job! Wonderful way to earn a paycheck and help your fellow man at the same time.

Whoot! for Jars, too! I think the loving each other is all that matters. Keep us informed, for we must send many Buffista-like presents to mock celebrate your new status.


Glamcookie - Aug 28, 2006 7:41:17 am PDT #490 of 10000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Congrats to Calli! And to Jars!

A cold has reared its ugly head. It has to be out Out OUT by Friday.


Jars - Aug 28, 2006 7:43:09 am PDT #491 of 10000

I think the loving each other is all that matters.

This is pretty much what we're thinking. I get to live with my best friend, how is that NOT cool? Plus, sex!


amych - Aug 28, 2006 7:50:12 am PDT #492 of 10000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I get to live with my best friend, how is that NOT cool? Plus, sex!

Seriously! Best thing ever!

Keep your eye on that part, and the whole being-rushed-by-the-circumstances business will just be something that pushed you to make a decision sooner than you might've otherwise. All the time in the world (and no squidgy feelings about the freaky social power structures inherent in marriage) is a nice luxury to have, but if you're sure about le bloke, it's worth just doing it.


Sparky1 - Aug 28, 2006 7:53:31 am PDT #493 of 10000
Librarian Warlord

vw, I hope you feel better soon.

Jars, congratulations! Marrying your best friend = teh awesome.


P.M. Marc - Aug 28, 2006 8:03:01 am PDT #494 of 10000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yeah, what amych said.


Calli - Aug 28, 2006 8:03:07 am PDT #495 of 10000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

That sounds terrific, Jars! Sorry about the circumstances, but I'm glad you're going to get to:

live with my best friend, how is that NOT cool? Plus, sex!


Jars - Aug 28, 2006 8:07:33 am PDT #496 of 10000

amych is wise.

I know there's no point in worrying about it, really. Things always work themselves out, and I'm better off looking at all the bits that make this a good decision in the first place.


sj - Aug 28, 2006 8:13:47 am PDT #497 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Looks like I get to fill out more forms and jump through more hoops so I can keep the financial aid I was already promised. I just had a good cry and decided I will have to deal with this tomorrow. I hate jumping through hoops.


§ ita § - Aug 28, 2006 8:17:00 am PDT #498 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Seriously! Best thing ever!

I have heard rumours...

I hate jumping through hoops.

Mnnf. Bureaucracy.