Jars, do you not want to get married? I mean, if there weren't a residency issue, would it be totally the wrong thing to do, or just a little?
You know, I just... I woke up, and I looked in the mirror, and I thought, hey, what's with all the sin? I need to change. I'm... I'm dirty. I'm, I'm bad with the... sex and the envy and that, that loud music us kids listen to nowadays.
Buffy ,'Lessons'
Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
§ ita § - Aug 28, 2006 7:18:54 am PDT #477 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Jars - Aug 28, 2006 7:22:27 am PDT #478 of 10000
oops.
Typo Boy - Aug 28, 2006 7:25:41 am PDT #479 of 10000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Megan E. - Aug 28, 2006 7:27:08 am PDT #480 of 10000
I agree with Typo Boy. Visa offices do a lot of checking to ensure that marriages are based on love, not convienience.
Laura - Aug 28, 2006 7:27:48 am PDT #481 of 10000
Our wings are not tired.
May it all work out well Jars. Really better than other "have to" reasons.
Jars - Aug 28, 2006 7:28:29 am PDT #482 of 10000
Yeah, I was gonna eventually. But also I don't think the Irish government cares that much so long as my spouse is from a western nation and not Africa somewhere.
Yes, I have issues with the occasionally rascist nature of my government.
sumi - Aug 28, 2006 7:29:00 am PDT #483 of 10000
Art Crawl!!!
Well - congratulations anyway!
Typo Boy - Aug 28, 2006 7:32:04 am PDT #484 of 10000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Oh yeah, and belated congratulations. (Cause I should have posted congrats before advice.)
§ ita § - Aug 28, 2006 7:34:20 am PDT #485 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I certainly hope it is just no big deal, except in the areas where it should be.
Jars - Aug 28, 2006 7:34:56 am PDT #486 of 10000
Heh. Well, thankyou. It's not like I'm upset about it. Just a little perturbed by all the crap we have to do to get it sorted. If we get married in Ireland, we have to give three months notice before the ceremony. SO we'll probably get married in Sheffield, which brings with it its own problems. Then there's immigration and tax and stuff...