sj, on days like that I've been known to announce to my DH that we're going to fight, so he could pick the topic. He's learned that on days when I'm not in control of my hormones, it really is better if he just lets me read my book (and he doesn't try to cheer me up/change my mood).
Is he willing to give lessons? Teacup Guy just doesn't know what to do with me right now, and I just feel awful because I know how bad I am being but it's like I am watching myself from the hall and can't stop myself. The good news is, we're down the beach, Mom just fed us a yummy dinner, and she does know what to do when I get like this.
Is he willing to give lessons?
I think this is something about our partners we all have to learn the hard way, unfortunately. It took my DH a few years before he accepted the fact that the easiest way through those kinds of days -- for both of us -- was to take a step back.
Have a great weekend at the beach!
However, on the other hand, Suzi & I will be seeing Corb Lund tomorrow!!!
Made of awesome!
I have confirmed that I am allergic to gardening. Itchy now.
I'm feeling a little better but also exhausted. I am headed to bed now for hopefully a very good night's sleep. I hope everyone here sleeps well tonight too.
ETA: Thanks to the people who posted about their problems with BCPs. I'm sorry I didn't respond to you all individually, but it is nice to know I am not alone.
Is he willing to give lessons? Teacup Guy just doesn't know what to do with me right now, and I just feel awful because I know how bad I am being but it's like I am watching myself from the hall and can't stop myself.
Just announcing the situation can be helpful. "Look, I'm in a mood right now where I'm getting way more pissed off than is reasonable. We need to talk about things tomorrow, because tonight it's just not going to work."
Just announcing the situation can be helpful. "Look, I'm in a mood right now where I'm getting way more pissed off than is reasonable. We need to talk about things tomorrow, because tonight it's just not going to work."
Nope. Didn't work. "But, why? What can you do about it? Is it this? Is it that?" Don't get me wrong, he is so very wonderful and he really means well, but he doesn't get it, and I don't think we have been together long enough for him to have figured all of this out yet. Especially since, in the past when I was this bad we weren't living together so I would just stay away for a few days.
Really, bed now.
{{TCG & SJ}} I hope you have a nice weekend.
Happy Woody Anniversay Jess & DH! heeheeheeheehee
Damn. Zito had a no-no through 7. Lost that in the 8th. Lost the shutout in the 9th. Oy. And yet...his 100th win as an Oakland Athletic. Only the fourth pitcher to do that after Catfish Hunter, Vida Blue and Dave Stewart.
Is anyone around? I'm having a major freakout about something that happened at work today (discovered a co-worker's mistake, which part of me feels I should have caught earlier, and that is going to cause me even more work when I don't have time to deal with it.)
