And my posts...
That's ok. Do what you need to do. And take care of yourself, k?
Inara: You don't have to die alone. Mal: Everybody dies alone.
'Out Of Gas'
Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
vw bug - Sep 03, 2006 1:34:17 pm PDT #1686 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
sj - Sep 03, 2006 4:18:56 pm PDT #1687 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
ita, vw's right, you shouldn't feel at all bad about posting about your loss here as much as you need to.
-t - Sep 03, 2006 4:26:00 pm PDT #1688 of 10000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
ita, I wouldn't have known about Marni if you hadn't posted about her, and I'm grateful that I do. She sounds well loved and admored, with good reason. It's nice to know about such people, even on the sad occasions when we lose them. So, thank you.
Typo Boy - Sep 03, 2006 4:27:44 pm PDT #1689 of 10000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
I'm not liking being alone, but it's a weird feeling, and not one that makes me want to seek others out.
To the extent it is within our power you are not alone. Post about it as much as you care to if that helps at all.
DavidS - Sep 03, 2006 4:33:19 pm PDT #1690 of 10000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Are there other KCistas?
Gudanov is there about. tina (mostly in the music thread) was from Lawrence until this year. Now she's in Chicago.
P.M. Marc - Sep 03, 2006 4:38:38 pm PDT #1691 of 10000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
What Gar said, ita.
It will, if I recall correctly from my friend Jesse's death this May, continue to dominate your brain for a while, until it doesn't, which may well feel just as strange.
DavidS - Sep 03, 2006 5:20:13 pm PDT #1692 of 10000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
My progression with my Mom's death was something like: grief (primal, powerful, more like anger than sadness), acceptance, loss (pangs, aching), depression, and then a gradual absorption of the loss. Not that it goes away exactly, but that loss is just a fact of your existence after a time.
Betsy HP - Sep 03, 2006 5:44:08 pm PDT #1693 of 10000
If I only had a brain...
Sean K - Sep 03, 2006 5:48:34 pm PDT #1694 of 10000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Blargh. We're back to the hospital tonight.
It's not terribly serious or dire, but S feels bad enough that we can't really wait (and the doctor said we shouldn't, under such circumstances) until our next appointment on Thursday, or even until Tuesday, which would probably be the soonest we could call and request a walk-in visit. Here's hoping this is a very brief stay before we get S back home again. I suspect it will be.
Pix - Sep 03, 2006 5:51:29 pm PDT #1695 of 10000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Hang in there, Sean, and please remember to call us if you need anything.