Reynolds, I'm a dangerous-minded man on a ship loaded with hurt. Now, why you got me chatting with your peons?

Womack ,'The Message'


Natter 46: The FIGHTIN' 46  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Sep 23, 2006 2:47:47 pm PDT #9872 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

If it's a close friend/intimate hug - full frontal press.

Head to the left?

I give a million sorts of hugs to krav people alone, based on physical and other intimacy. But I always go left, and there's nary a collision.

A friend of mine from Vancouver asked about kissing guys on the cheek and I was adamant that I was not about to start. She got confused because I'd always done the Montreal double kiss (starting left, natch) when I was in Canada--it just seems weird here, though. There is one krav friend who does it, and I had to talk myself down from it creeping me out.


msbelle - Sep 23, 2006 2:49:28 pm PDT #9873 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

left, so right arm goes over shoulder and left under. right feel weird. of course if it is a both arms over the shoulder hug, it doesn;t matter which side.


-t - Sep 23, 2006 2:51:35 pm PDT #9874 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I know I've had to do the which-way-to-lean dance when going in for a hug. That may have been me trying to hug non-huggers, though.


§ ita § - Sep 23, 2006 2:53:05 pm PDT #9875 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

if it is a both arms over the shoulder hug, it doesn;t matter which side.

So your head can be left or right?

Now I'm trying to think of who I hug right over/left under and who I hug both over. And if I hug anyone both under.


DavidS - Sep 23, 2006 2:58:16 pm PDT #9876 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Head to the left?

Yep. I think that's a standard convention. Otherwise - headknocking. And I suspect it's based on predominant right handedness.


msbelle - Sep 23, 2006 2:59:41 pm PDT #9877 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

only both arms under with some of the really tall exes. If I hug both arms under head only hits the chest.

and yeah, head either side if both arms over. cause usually with a both arms over, that person is about to get kissed.


SailAweigh - Sep 23, 2006 3:00:56 pm PDT #9878 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

And if I hug anyone both under.

Being short, anyone over 6' gets the both under from me. Otherwise we both try to be pretzels, which is inclined to throw backs out.


Sue - Sep 23, 2006 3:01:21 pm PDT #9879 of 10001
hip deep in pie

The Rolling Stones are playing about 500 feet from my house right now.

How's it sound?

It sounds pretty good. Actually, I can go outside my door and cross the street and see the video screen. It's kind of like a street party out there. Too bad it's been pissing rain all day.

Happy belated birthday, btw!

Thanks! It was an awesome day. I hope that means it's the beginning of a great new year for me.

I have no idea how I hug. I guess I'll have to hug someone and see what happens. Where's Jesse?


§ ita § - Sep 23, 2006 3:06:43 pm PDT #9880 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

usually with a both arms over, that person is about to get kissed.

Hmm. I think I do both arms over to greet Colin, but no kissing. Some dangling, though. It's a position I will stand in to talk to him. I think I'm head left there too.

Right handedness? Is that about keeping the right hand free?

Where's Jesse?

If you can't find her, try sarameg.


Lee - Sep 23, 2006 3:08:04 pm PDT #9881 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

If you can't find her, try sarameg.

But then you have to throw in a cheek pinch. What hand would you use?