I think I'm making a distinction between "hit on" which is creepy and or sleezy, and flirted with, which is pleasant and innocuous.
We knocked 'em deader!
Willow ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'
Natter 46: The FIGHTIN' 46
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Allyson - Aug 15, 2006 9:41:06 am PDT #2736 of 10001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
§ ita § - Aug 15, 2006 9:41:21 am PDT #2737 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Did you mean "get a hit put on them"?
You're thinking of Jersey.
brenda m - Aug 15, 2006 9:42:04 am PDT #2738 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I don't get hit on either, but I (a) am usually with my husband and (b) give out pretty distinct "do not talk to me" vibes.
I'm so solidly (b), even when I'm not meaning to, that (a) seems less and less likely. Frustrating. Also what ita said about the RarelyGA. Which is frustrating in a different manner.
Amy - Aug 15, 2006 9:42:20 am PDT #2739 of 10001
Because books.
Did you mean "get a hit put on them"?
You're thinking of Jersey.
Hey!
msbelle - Aug 15, 2006 9:42:23 am PDT #2740 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
yes, I tend to think of them in two camps - the sex and the city wanna bes, or you know, college students.
Nutty - Aug 15, 2006 9:42:26 am PDT #2741 of 10001
"Mister Spock is on his fanny, sir. Reports heavy damage."
One of the funny things about the "I'm too busy to be hit on" look is that, while you are making it, it's very hard to notice being hit on. I am sure I have been hit on while I did that look, but I would have to be hit with an Actual Anvil (or an incredibly obnox pickup line) to have it make any impact.
I am finding, much to my surprise, that being receptive to and even reciprocal of hit-ons causes them to occur more often, or to be more obvious, or both.
Aims - Aug 15, 2006 9:42:40 am PDT #2742 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
You're thinking of Jersey.
All those damn "New" states.
§ ita § - Aug 15, 2006 9:43:55 am PDT #2743 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I think I'm making a distinction between "hit on" which is creepy and or sleezy, and flirted with, which is pleasant and innocuous.
Combining them both barely shifts my numbers, but I concede that it's totally not about quantity when you're experiencing it. Just when you're tabulating and analysing. Which is totally not something I'd do.
Okay, time to take my perkygoth self out to nap in the car.
Bats and glitter! Bats and glitter!
Uh, sorry.
Lee - Aug 15, 2006 9:51:16 am PDT #2744 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
I spent 10 minutes this morning trying to find a shirt that didn't hurt my sunburn from Sunday.
It didn't work.
ChiKat - Aug 15, 2006 9:55:36 am PDT #2745 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
I spent 10 minutes this morning trying to find a shirt that didn't hurt my sunburn from Sunday.
Speaking as a frequent sunburn sufferer, the only one that will probably work is the shirt you wore Sunday.
I have been known to wear my bathing suit under a shirt for work because a bra killed me and I am not about to go out in public without some sort of support. The only solution was to wear the suit I got sunburned in and then suffer with an oversized t-shirt.