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Tracy ,'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 31: We're Motivated Go-getters.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 17, 2006 9:25:29 am PDT #9114 of 10001
What is even happening?

Also? What Jess said. I started my last response with "Bullshit," originally, but didn't want you to think that was in reference to your time being valuable, so I left it off before I submitted the post. But I was totally thinking it, the whole time.


Aims - Aug 17, 2006 9:26:56 am PDT #9115 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Cash, what they all said. Don't drop your rate.

I have an odd question:

A woman who cheats on her husband is an adulteress. A man is an adulterer.

What is the "other" man or woman called?


Jessica - Aug 17, 2006 9:28:09 am PDT #9116 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

What is the "other" man or woman called?

Homewrecker?


Gris - Aug 17, 2006 9:28:37 am PDT #9117 of 10001
Hey. New board.

A homewrecker.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 17, 2006 9:28:53 am PDT #9118 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

What is the "other" man or woman called?

I'm sure there's a snarky (as well as grammatically correct) answer to this, but I also wanted to call attention to one of my favorite cheating terms, the "cuckold."


Gris - Aug 17, 2006 9:29:11 am PDT #9119 of 10001
Hey. New board.

Or maybe adulteree


Jessica - Aug 17, 2006 9:30:06 am PDT #9120 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Oh, unless you meant cuckold, which would be the spouse NOT doing the cheating.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 17, 2006 9:30:36 am PDT #9121 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Aims - Aug 17, 2006 9:31:18 am PDT #9122 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Right. I love cuckold. Makes me think of Yul Brynner.

I meant the homewrecker.


Topic!Cindy - Aug 17, 2006 9:31:33 am PDT #9123 of 10001
What is even happening?

Technically, I think it's okay to refer to the partner as an "adulterer" or "adulteress." An adulterer is a person who engages in the act of adultery. The act of adultery is defined as sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the spouse.

If I were trying to differentiate between the cheater and his/her partner for something I was writing, what I called the unmarried participant in adulterous sex would depend on the context.