Buffy ,'Help'
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I gotta say - I'm dating a Canadian (avec green card) right now, and am seriously considering proposing a marriage of convenience.
Oh, well then he'd be able to sponsor you under the Family Class (but you'd have to actually be intending to live in Canada.) That only takes 5-16 months.
Hey, all! Glad to see the Ween is doing ok, sitting in place and fuming with impatience. Or maybe impatiens.
I would like to point out that "the Ween" was in no particular hurry to be ex utero.
So JZ is going to give birth to a pair of goofball, stoner musical virtuosos? Huh.
Every Voyage a Gay Cruise, indeed....
She doesn't look even a tiny bit doomed, does she?
Yeah, that IS actually about the only I could get to Paris these days....
Ok. Need advice. Hypothetical situation.
Let's say a friend, who happens to be a recovering alcoholic, asks you to come babysit her house while the cable guy is there doing some work, because she's not available (for a very good reason). You get to the house, and you find an empty bottle of wine and two dirty wine glasses.
Do you a) ignore it...friend has been doing very well, she must know what she's doing; b) confront her...she probably has a good reason; c) stage an intervention...she's going backwards; d) cut her off...this is one two many mistakes.
I think step 1 is don't jump to conclusions that she was one of the people drinking said wine. Maybe she had two friends over who were doing the drinking.
Oh, this is beautiful. Who'd've thought Target would even go there: [link]
I think step 1 is don't jump to conclusions that she was one of the people drinking said wine. Maybe she had two friends over who were doing the drinking.
That's fair. Except, I know what she's done every night for the last week, and who she's been with (unless she's lying to me, which I really doubt). She's been having a lot of dates with a new guy...the last two nights, even. I highly doubt they had other company.
Do you a) ignore it...friend has been doing very well, she must know what she's doing; b) confront her...she probably has a good reason; c) stage an intervention...she's going backwards; d) cut her off...this is one two many mistakes.
somewhere between b and c. I'd say, in a casual, non judgmental way, "hey, i noticed that there was some wine in your place. Is everything okay?" That gives her a chance to talk to you if she has any issues.
I think asking in a nonconfrontational way is a first step.
You can't know that she's in trouble again, the evidence suggests that but evidence's first impressions can't always be trusted.
You saw the wine glasses and you are justifiably concerned given her history but you don't have all of the facts yet.
