Happy b'day vw. May it be your best, most balanced year!
And thanks for all the good thought on M, women. I feel a lot better.
Sail, it's good to hear that one isn't doomed to some of the symptoms I've heard about. And I'm all about the herbal solutions. When the time comes, I may have questions about your 'tools.'
Laura, I'm so with you on wanting to avoid the lack of interest issue. It's an interesting question though...I've had that concern in other relationships, in my 20s and 30s...so I'm hoping some creative thinking will help at least a little bit...but I'm worried.
David, Astroglide rulz.
And thanks so much for the test names Chikat. It's good to know what to ask for.
The hivemind is mighty!
I figued out the lack of files. The person job guy delegated to send me the info is out of the office yesterday and today. I found this out by sending a request for some tables I need and I got his automated out-of-office reply. So I need to wait until late tomorrow before I get ansty.
The lack of interest (on the M discussion) is causing problems for my parents, according to an uncomfortable discussion my sister had with my mom recently. More than I ever needed to know but since she won't take care of the health issues that are causing the problem, I don't think she'll do anything about it. *sigh*
I'm feeling all stalkery for calling a friend twice this weekend to check up on her and see if she wants to meet up this week. She hasn't replied to vm's. I'm probably overreacting. She's busy and has a new baby.
My surrogate mom and her husband are sort of the benchmark for postM success, I guess. She talks about 'planning ahead'. In her case, that can be up to a week, which speaks to a real dedication and affection that I admire in the extreme.
When I was living with them, in my late 30s, I was completely nga for a long time. It was both iinspiring and irksome to hear them 'at it', outside my window. (they sleep outside every night of the week and have done so for their entire marriage of about 35 years)
Did I mention that they are 93 (him) and 79 (her)?
Like I said...awe-inspiring.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, VW!!!!!!!!!!!
Why isn't it afternoon yet? I wanna quit packing and go get my manicure and get to the fun part of my day.
::pouts::
The lack of interest (on the M discussion) is causing problems for my parents
It's tough to keep focused on trying solutions, because of lack of interest. I invested in another cache of natural remedies just before I went on vacation. The thing with herbal methods is the time lag before you know if it helps. A magic feel like my old self pill would be nice.
A magic feel like my old self pill would be nice.
And would give the inventor 'ruler-of-the-world!" status.
::pouts::
No waiting until afternoon to have fun! The packing will be there tomorrow. Be lazy. Put your feet up and relax.
Keep telling you -- not. dead.
True, but I don't think we've settled on the
alive
or
undead
question, and really, maybe he's been undead for quite some time, now. It would explain a lot.
Cashmere, are you still here?
