Sometimes I miss having powers... Oh. Oh! I know what this is! This is peer pressure! Any second now you're gonna make me smoke tobacco and--and have drugs!

Anya ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 31: We're Motivated Go-getters.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


JZ - Jul 10, 2006 12:54:34 pm PDT #3671 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I've gotten full refunds on two security deposits because of that law.

It's the best law EVAR.

Sorry about the boy worries, vw. I have no advice to offer, just patience-ma and commiseration. I suck at it, too, which may sound bullshitty since I actually have a boy, but I assure you it happened not only through no effort of my own, but very likely in spite of myself.


vw bug - Jul 10, 2006 12:56:46 pm PDT #3672 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Sorry about the boy worries, vw.

It's kind of stupid. I mean, it's been what? Three days. Ok, four. But, it was going so well, and I probably got over-excited, and blech.

I just don't know when it's ok for me to e-mail again and say, "DUDE! I liked you! What's up?"


beth b - Jul 10, 2006 12:57:07 pm PDT #3673 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I think you found the flaw in the email plan - you have no way of knowing anything - like did his cat spill water and kill his keyboard, did I say too much , or did he get distracted by work, family, etc. I'd wait a little longer


Emily - Jul 10, 2006 12:58:48 pm PDT #3674 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

It's the best law EVAR.

That is a FANTASTIC law! Because many of my landlords have been painfully slow about this.


vw bug - Jul 10, 2006 12:59:42 pm PDT #3675 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

It's the law here too, Em. I've gotten VERY familiar with the law today.


beth b - Jul 10, 2006 12:59:54 pm PDT #3676 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Actually - maybe now is the time ....

Just let him know that you had enjoied the corospondence and all though you knoiw anything could have happened - the problem with email is that you can't seehear anything. give him a little chit chat and then you can ask him to let you know if he doesn't want to here from you again


beth b - Jul 10, 2006 1:01:14 pm PDT #3677 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

wait ... i still want some sympathy on dealing with the unemployment office - 4 years after I should have been done with them.


Lee - Jul 10, 2006 1:01:56 pm PDT #3678 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

That does suck, Beth. I hope you can get them to go away soon.


-t - Jul 10, 2006 1:06:30 pm PDT #3679 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's crap, beth, I'm sorry you have to deal with it. I hate the assumption that you are trying to get away with something that those types of letters always seem to have.

Have all the e-mails been over the weekend, vw? Maybe he can't correspond while he's at work.


vw bug - Jul 10, 2006 1:10:16 pm PDT #3680 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Have all the e-mails been over the weekend, vw? Maybe he can't correspond while he's at work.

All the e-mails from Friday were from work. He's the General Manager of a movie theater, so I suppose he can do what he wants. It was weird, 'cause he told me he had Sunday off, but then didn't e-mail at all all day.

I know I'm overthinking this. It's just...you know...what I do.