They're doing it backwards; walking up the down slide.

River ,'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 31: We're Motivated Go-getters.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


-t - Jul 10, 2006 1:06:30 pm PDT #3679 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's crap, beth, I'm sorry you have to deal with it. I hate the assumption that you are trying to get away with something that those types of letters always seem to have.

Have all the e-mails been over the weekend, vw? Maybe he can't correspond while he's at work.


vw bug - Jul 10, 2006 1:10:16 pm PDT #3680 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Have all the e-mails been over the weekend, vw? Maybe he can't correspond while he's at work.

All the e-mails from Friday were from work. He's the General Manager of a movie theater, so I suppose he can do what he wants. It was weird, 'cause he told me he had Sunday off, but then didn't e-mail at all all day.

I know I'm overthinking this. It's just...you know...what I do.


Burrell - Jul 10, 2006 1:17:59 pm PDT #3681 of 10001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Hey Lee, sorry I disappeared the other day before I saw your question, but I'm going to be in HMB in early August, like the first week.


Lee - Jul 10, 2006 1:20:40 pm PDT #3682 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

but I'm going to be in HMB in early August, like the first week.

OOOH. You'll have some time to play, I hope?


Scrappy - Jul 10, 2006 1:29:46 pm PDT #3683 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I just don't know when it's ok for me to e-mail again and say, "DUDE! I liked you! What's up?"

Um, never. If he doesn't email in a couple more days, I think you could send a non-questiony email. Something like "Did you see POTC yet? I did and loved it." or something. If he's interested in you and just been overwhelmed, he'll answer you. If not, asking won't get you an answer.

Signed, Learned This The Hard Way


SailAweigh - Jul 10, 2006 1:29:51 pm PDT #3684 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

I hope the kerfuffle blows over, Sail.

It's blown. I was uber-nice to her in the gym and she melted. Finally unclenched her jaw enough to answer some questions and then start bitching about the in-laws. Hee.

Go, vw!! I don't think you're overreacting. I've had to do similar things myself. And judging from all the other stories here today, it's fairly common, more than I realized. Besides, the asshat deserves it.

beth, I'm glad to hear the hubby got a raise! Although, it doesn't offseet the ire with the EDD and four years later. It took me 2 years to convince the state of CA I didn't owe them any tax money for the year of 1989, I was overseas. Why they didn't bother to ask about 1985, 1986, 1987 or 1988 I don't know. But they were damned determined I owed them for 1989.


vw bug - Jul 10, 2006 1:36:23 pm PDT #3685 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Um, never. If he doesn't email in a couple more days, I think you could send a non-questiony email. Something like "Did you see POTC yet? I did and loved it." or something. If he's interested in you and just been overwhelmed, he'll answer you. If not, asking won't get you an answer.

And, as always, Robin is wise.


beth b - Jul 10, 2006 1:43:39 pm PDT #3686 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

yaeah, I gotta go with Robin being correct. It is just that I prefer a no to an I wonder ....

happily, DH is not as annoyed about the whole EDD thing as I am . so I can spit and snarl with out feeling like I am dragging him into the whole thing. really, It is just the assumpton that I was trying to defraud that irks.


megan walker - Jul 10, 2006 1:51:07 pm PDT #3687 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

really, It is just the assumpton that I was trying to defraud that irks.

beth,

Much sympathies. I was audited by NY for excluding income left to me by my Dad. When I replied that I followed their tax form directions to the letter, they basically said, "No, you didn't, you should have known X, Y, Z, even though we didn't include that, and probably did it on purpose." Yet, mysteriously, the directions were rewritten the very next year. Jackholes.


erikaj - Jul 10, 2006 1:51:41 pm PDT #3688 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

wrod.