JZ, you and Hec are going to be wonderful parents no matter what kind of changing table you get. Since you two are going to be doing most of the changing, I recommend getting what you like and playing deaf when anyone suggests otherwise.

In changing babies, I have found the couch works well, as long as you have a big enough pad or towel. You're neither so high that they'll be seriously injured if they fall, nor so low that it bothers your knees and back. However, cleary YbabychangingMV. Seriously, in this choice, you can do no wrong.

What do you all say when someone asks where you were "born"?

Manchester, CT, but this is none of my homes or hometowns.

Car and health ~ma, d.

Also, how do the already-parental Bitches filter out all the noise from all directions about "I know what you must do and everyone else is WRONG and probably trying to KILL YOUR BABY OMG" before you go feral on someone?

{{JZ}} It helped that I was already old and set in my ways when I gave birth I suppose. I never had a changing table. At home I mostly changed them sitting on a bed. There was a big dresser that often was the changing table. They went to work with me. The boys got changed on desktops, car hoods, conference tables. I always thought the changing tables in the public bathrooms were mighty cool, but the boys outgrew them about instantly.

The most grief I heard was about nursing them everywhere and anywhere. Whatever. Given the choice of crying child or scowling adult I'm feeding the child.

Given the choice of crying child or scowling adult I'm feeding the child.

Seems like the right priority to me.

Car~ma and Health~ma d. Hollywood, FL has some great neighborhoods back on the canals. Nice town. I have relatives there so we go pretty often. Nice beach and pier too.

We have one of those curved changing pads on top of a former kitchen island table (perfect height for tall people; current kitchen too small to use it). Never dropped baby #1, even when she got to the way wiggly stage. You can duct tape the pad to the top of the dresser if you're worried about it sliding (though we never did).

Currently the setup I have for baby #2 (11 days to due date!) is the changing table described tucked in a corner of our bedroom, 3 big tupperwares of clothes underneath. He might sleep in our bed, or in the pack n play (currently in Eve's closet), or in the borrowed crib that's currently disassembled in the basement. Eve slept in her stroller for the first few weeks. When it comes to baby stuff, whatever works, you know? (Except, of course, you do need a safe carseat.)

You can duct tape the pad to the top of the dresser if you're worried about it sliding

Or duct tape the kid if he wiggles too much. The boys slept in the stroller often. No, I never duct taped the boys, but wherever they fell asleep they stayed. Let sleeping babies lie.

11 days to due date!

Woo! Bet you're ready. I was mighty warm at that point in the summer.

Conclusion: EVERYONE BACK OFF BEFORE I BITE YOU. Also, how do the already-parental Bitches filter out all the noise from all directions about "I know what you must do and everyone else is WRONG and probably trying to KILL YOUR BABY OMG" before you go feral on someone?

You must pre-empt them with badges. Badges proclaiming sentiments such as "My sprog, my choice", or "If you care that much about it, get one of your own". Or just "LALALALA, I CAN'T HEAR YOU!" When they start up, point to the badge. Maybe print out stickers to slap on their foreheads saying "YOU GOT SERVED".

This is the only good way to forestall unsolicited advice. Anyone who disagrees is probably trying to KILL YOUR BABY.

Thanks Cindy. Borrowed some topical cortisone from friends earlier, but am home now. Have caladryl type stuff. No benedryl. Not completely sure it's poison ivy because it's not all in one spot. Mostly just a blister here and there. One spot between 2 fingers, but otherwise only on my forearms and one knee. It isn't unbearable, just another piece in a crappy weekend.

I lived in West Hollywood. Mostly strip malls and neighborhoods. I think I've blocked out a lot of my childhood, as it's hard to recall things.

JZ-- get what you want. Hec is a great dad and I KNOW you will be an amazing mom. I would trust your choices completely.

Just got back from Macy's where I got two new pairs of summery-but-not-too-casual pants for my business trip. Why did I need new pants, you may ask? Oh, just because I now wear a size 8, she says casually. Size 8!!! I even tried on some sixes which fit.

Oh, just because I now wear a size 8, she says casually.

Wow! Nice going missy. Haven't seen size 8 in 15 years. Again I say Wow.

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I even tried on some sixes which fit.

Now that's just bragging! (Go you!)