All right, no one's killing folk today, on account of our very tight schedule.

Mal ,'Trash'


Spike's Bitches 31: We're Motivated Go-getters.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Jul 06, 2006 8:59:26 am PDT #3148 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Fay - I wanna grow my hair into your hairstyle.

I can always take you to Fay's hairstylist.


erikaj - Jul 06, 2006 9:00:26 am PDT #3149 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

Raymond Chandler would never forgive us for forgetting that... It's a complete mindfuck being a blonde Chandler fan.


SuziQ - Jul 06, 2006 9:00:28 am PDT #3150 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I can always take you to Fay's hairstylist.

Heeee! It needs to grow a bit more, and then bingo!


erikaj - Jul 06, 2006 9:02:47 am PDT #3151 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

I've got hobbit hair. Mom needs new scissors. And I never realized how flat my natural color is...never thought that before.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 06, 2006 9:06:32 am PDT #3152 of 10001
What is even happening?

I, too, have Hobbit hair, right now. My "soft black" has finally faded to a color that works well on me. Unfortunately, I have about a half inch of roots, that are still more pepper than salt, but there's more salt than is good for my blood pressure. Or ego. Or something.


Jen - Jul 06, 2006 9:06:34 am PDT #3153 of 10001
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

Robin, we learned in nursing school that eating disorders are almost entirely about control, and sometimes it helps to point out to the person that what started as an exercise in control is in fact entirely beyond their control now. If they seem open to it, you can point out that they can regain some control by not participating in the behavior that's taken them to this point, and that a good therapist can help them get that control back.

Unfortunately eating disorders are often life-long struggles for people much the same way that alcoholism never really goes away even if you don't drink, but many people who have eating disorders successfully manage them. I'm sending good thoughts her and your way.


beth b - Jul 06, 2006 9:06:41 am PDT #3154 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm sorry about venting here. There is no one at home I can talk with about this

you are supposed to vent her. and wew give hugs and advice - all of which youare allowed to ignore. and if it is between K-bug and Dh , there is nothing you can do to fix things - so vent here.


brenda m - Jul 06, 2006 9:09:20 am PDT #3155 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, Suz. That's so tough when the adults don't want to be.


Topic!Cindy - Jul 06, 2006 9:19:25 am PDT #3156 of 10001
What is even happening?

Oh crap, Suzi. I just read the LJ. "Suck it up," and/or "let it go," is about the only thing anyone can say to him, I think. I hope it gets better for you. For them too, but especially for you.


SuziQ - Jul 06, 2006 9:22:25 am PDT #3157 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

K-Bug is just struggling with what she wants to do regarding softball. She is finally having to WORK at softball instead of it coming easy and has hit a mental wall. I'm just trying to get her through the next month without quitting on herself.

If she ever saw DH acting the way he has been to me - crying and pouting over this, she would feel so guilty. I'm just so stunned by his inability to cope. I've told him that if he can't get it under control then he shouldn't come to the next tournament. And if he does and acts as he has the last couple of day, OMG watch out. I'll need a lawyer and bail money.

rant, rant, ranty, rant.